Is My Boyfriend a Misogynist Quiz
Understand red-flag patterns like entitlement, disrespect, control, and intimidation in about 10 minutes. Free and no sign-up, with 15 quick items that help you decide what support or next steps to consider.


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Gendered Emotional Control (GEC)
Gendered Emotional Control (GEC)
Average
7.2
Normal range
4.7 — 9.8
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15
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Physical Intimidation and Safety (PIaS)
Physical Intimidation and Safety (PIaS)
Average
10.4
Normal range
8.4 — 12.4
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15
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Sexual Boundaries and Entitlement (SBaE)
Sexual Boundaries and Entitlement (SBaE)
Average
10.6
Normal range
8.7 — 12.5
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- He has repeatedly pressured me to accept his choice or dismissed the consequences for me.
- He respects my decisions and treats protection as a shared responsibility.
- He has sabotaged protection, ignored an agreement, or threatened consequences over a reproductive decision.
- He has pushed his preference or complained about protection, but stopped when I held my boundary.
- He sometimes jokes or hints that affection is the expected return.
- He does not treat affection or sex as something I owe him.
- He becomes threatening, frightening, or physically forceful when he believes he is owed sexual access.
- He repeatedly uses what he spent or did as leverage to make me feel obligated.
- I regularly plan what to say, where to stand, or how to leave because his reactions can be intimidating.
- I do not anticipate physical intimidation when making ordinary choices or raising concerns.
- I have avoided a topic or changed a plan once because I worried about his temper.
- I change my behavior because he has directly threatened force, used force, or displayed a weapon.
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Is My Boyfriend a Misogynist Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up self-check helps you reflect on behaviors associated with gender-based entitlement, disrespect, control, and intimidation. It cannot determine whether your boyfriend “is a misogynist,” diagnose anyone, or replace legal or professional guidance. The scores are unvalidated reflective summaries, not clinical or legal cutoffs. Harm can occur in adult or peer relationships. If you feel in immediate danger, contact local emergency services; otherwise, consider speaking with a trusted person or relationship-abuse support service.
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