Can You Survive a Yandere Relationship Quiz
Understand jealousy, control, and safety in a relationship in about 10 minutes. Quick 15 question self check flags boundary, coercion, and surveillance concerns with no sign up.


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Emotional Control and Neglect (ECaN)
Emotional Control and Neglect (ECaN)
Average
9
Normal range
7.2 — 10.9
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15
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Physical Force and Safety (PFaS)
Physical Force and Safety (PFaS)
Average
8.4
Normal range
6.2 — 10.7
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15
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Sexual Boundaries and Consent (SBaC)
Sexual Boundaries and Consent (SBaC)
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8.1
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5.5 — 10.7
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- They allow me to leave and respect my request for space.
- They follow briefly and ask me to continue, but stop when I repeat my request.
- They follow me from place to place or repeatedly restart the confrontation.
- They block or lock an exit, take my keys, restrain me, or otherwise prevent me from leaving.
- They respect my needs or communicate honestly and help find alternatives when support is unavailable.
- They sometimes dismiss a need or fail to help even when they reasonably could.
- They withhold practical support as punishment or leverage during conflict.
- They deliberately prevent essential care, food, sleep, or safe shelter, or abandon me in a dangerous situation.
- They ask and wait for a freely given, clear response.
- They sometimes assume interest from past experiences, but stop immediately when corrected.
- They treat hesitation as agreement and keep trying to persuade me.
- They proceed after I say no, freeze, pull away, or cannot freely agree.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Can You Survive a Yandere Relationship Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
The “yandere” trope can make obsession look romantic, but real jealousy, coercion, surveillance, and force deserve serious attention. This free, no-sign-up self-check reviews sexual boundaries, physical safety, and emotional control in a relationship involving an adult or peer. It cannot predict survival, diagnose abuse, or establish that a relationship is safe. If you feel in immediate danger, move to a safer place if possible and contact local emergency services, a trusted person, or a domestic or sexual violence support service.
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