Interpersonal Relationship Stages Assessment Test

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Interpersonal Relationship Stages Assessment Test - Description and methodology of the test
Someone deciding whether a specific connection has become more reciprocal, supportive, and stable can use this relationship assessment as a structured way to examine that question. The Interpersonal Relationship Stages Assessment Test is suited to a person weighing how to respond to an evolving bond, rather than seeking a general description of relationships. It offers a focused prompt for that decision.
What This Assessment Explores
It examines interpersonal relationship development beyond occasional contact, including fondness, goodwill, shared activities, favors, responsibility, respect, openness, empathy, emotional support, and the wish to spend more time together. These themes suit friendship, an emerging bond, or another continuing personal relationship.
The single Interpersonal Relationship Stage scale ranges from 0-26. It assesses the developmental stage of an interpersonal relationship, from initial acquaintance to friendship, by considering depth of interest, mutual support, and degree of attachment. The companionship stage involves shared activities, mutual assistance, and responsibility for a common task; higher scores indicate deeper and more stable relationships. The three displayed bands are:
- Acquaintance (0-10) indicates that contact remains limited, situational, or lightly connected.
- Camaraderie forming (11-18) suggests growing mutual interest, cooperation, and involvement.
- Friendship (19-26) reflects stronger attachment, support, trust, and stability.
Methodology and Evidence Base
This interpersonal relationship questionnaire uses binary yes-or-no items tied to one specific connection. Prompts combine concrete situations-meeting by chance, sharing work, exchanging favors, offering support-with personal judgments about trust, care, satisfaction, and closeness. This self-report format keeps the reflection connected to both observable interaction and the respondent’s experience.
Respondents answer each binary item, and the result is interpreted through the displayed scale and its three result bands.
The closest source is the Interpersonal Relationship Stages Method (Zhazhina, 2012). This questionnaire is conceptually consistent with that work, not presented as a standardized reproduction or direct adaptation. Obozov and Kon provide relevant context for interpersonal relations and friendship, while Bowlby’s attachment perspective helps clarify why closeness, security, and support matter without turning the result into an attachment classification.
This online version has no established norms or reported reliability estimates. Mood, recent conflict, memory, self-awareness, and hopes for the relationship can influence answers, so the result is best read as a structured snapshot for reflection rather than a clinical measurement.
- Zhazhina, Oksana Sergeevna. (2012). Diagnostics of the Stages of Interpersonal Relationships Among Adolescents in an Educational Group. Bulletin of the Samara Humanitarian Academy. Psychology Series, 1(11), 41-53.
- Obozov, Nikolai Nikolaevich. (1979). Interpersonal Relationships. Leningrad State University Press.
- Kon, Igor Semyonovich. (1987). Friendship: An Ethical and Psychological Essay (2nd ed., revised and expanded). Politizdat.
- Bowlby, John. (1982). Attachment and Loss: Retrospect and Prospect. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 52(4), 664-678. 10.1111/j.1939-0025.1982.tb01456.x
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