Do I Deserve Love Quiz
Understand how self-worth, affection, and boundaries shape your feeling of deserving love in 10 minutes. Free 15-question check-in with clear insights and a supportive tone, not a diagnosis.


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Openness to Receiving Care (OtRC)
Openness to Receiving Care (OtRC)
Average
10.2
Normal range
7.9 — 12.5
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15
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Self-Respect in Relationships (SiR)
Self-Respect in Relationships (SiR)
Average
4.2
Normal range
1.6 — 6.8
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0
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15
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Worth Beyond Performance (WBP)
Worth Beyond Performance (WBP)
Average
9.6
Normal range
7.7 — 11.5
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0
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I feel uneasy because rest seems acceptable only after I have earned it.
- I can rest, although unfinished tasks make me question whether I should.
- Some guilt appears, but it does not seriously diminish how I see myself.
- I regard rest as a valid need rather than a test of my worth.
- It feels like evidence that I am fundamentally hard to love.
- I keep searching for what I lacked compared with someone they might choose.
- I feel personally shaken, but I can also see that attraction and compatibility vary.
- I let the rejection hurt without allowing it to define my overall lovability.
- I become uncomfortable and look for a reason the message may not be sincere.
- I appreciate it, but I keep my reply restrained so I do not become too vulnerable.
- I enjoy it after taking some time to settle my initial uncertainty.
- I let myself feel cared for and respond in a way that feels natural to me.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Do I Deserve Love Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering whether you deserve love often reflects how you judge your worth, receive affection, and protect your needs—not whether you are actually worthy of care. This free, no-sign-up self-reflection quiz explores those emotional patterns across three dimensions. It is not a diagnosis or a verdict on your lovability; everyone deserves respectful, non-coercive care. If reflection becomes overwhelming, pause and contact someone you trust or a qualified professional. Seek immediate local crisis or emergency support if you may harm yourself or are in danger.
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