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Marital Intelligence Scale Test

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After about four minutes and 20 questions, the Marital Intelligence Scale Test is a brief self-report questionnaire about partner search and selection, romantic intentions, courtship, self-presentation, adaptive self-deception, manipulation, and distorted representations. Its overall result indicates the level of skills involved in integrating reproductively relevant information and building successful relationships, supporting reflection on related patterns.
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How the Scales are Structured

Marital IntelligenceMI
Assesses cognitive and behavioral skills for selecting a long-term partner and using adaptive strategies to build and sustain a resilient marital relationship.
example score33/100
33/100Developingexample score
20 – 59Developing
60 – 79Adequate
80 – 100Strong
A score of 33 falls in the Developing range, suggesting fewer consistently used strategies for accurately reading intentions, managing perceptions, and confidently navigating partner choice and relationship-building.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Dating for commitment
41%OF USERS
People who are dating with marriage in mind take it to check how thoughtfully they choose partners and build long-term relationship habits.
Engaged or newlyweds
34%OF USERS
Couples at the start of marriage or engagement use it to spot strengths and blind spots in communication, expectations, and future planning.
After a breakup or divorce
25%OF USERS
Individuals recovering from a serious split take it to understand what went wrong and what to change before entering a new relationship.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Marriage Intelligence ScaleMIS
You?
Average51.3
Typical rangeTypical39.5 – 63
Possible20 – 100
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • Agree
    • Somewhat agree
    • Not sure
    • Somewhat disagree
    • Disagree
    • Agree
    • Somewhat agree
    • Not sure
    • Somewhat disagree
    • Disagree
    • Agree
    • Somewhat agree
    • Not sure
    • Somewhat disagree
    • Disagree
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Marital Intelligence Scale Test - Description and methodology of the test

readiness for marriage
relationships
family beliefs

For readers reflecting on how they interpret romantic interest, communicate, and present themselves in courtship, the Marital Intelligence Scale Test offers a focused self-report profile. As a marital intelligence questionnaire, it is most relevant to people examining partner-selection skills and expectations about relationship success. The result indicates an overall level of these skills, supporting honest self-reflection about related relationship patterns and choices.

What This Assessment Explores

The questionnaire examines tendencies in partner search and selection: reading romantic interest, communicating during courtship, presenting strengths, and judging relationship possibilities. Items also touch attractiveness, status, persuasion, family competence, confidence, adaptive self-deception, manipulation, distorted representations, and interpretations of rejection or deception. This marital intelligence assessment suits readers considering heterosexual courtship and partner-selection expectations.

The result is one Marital Intelligence scale, ranging from 20-100: Developing (20-59), Adequate (60-79), or Strong (80-100). Higher scores indicate more developed skills for integrating reproductively relevant information, selecting partners adaptively, and building successful relationships.

These themes are brought together in the result:

  • Reading signals describes recognition of attention and intentions from a potential partner.
  • Courtship expression describes communication, attraction, persuasion, manipulation, and showing personal strengths.
  • Relationship judgment describes confidence, distorted representations, and expectations about partnership success.

Methodology and Scientific Basis

Each statement uses a five-point agreement continuum from Agree to Disagree, with intermediate choices such as Somewhat agree, Not sure, and Somewhat disagree. These are self-descriptions rather than performance tasks, so the result depends on how candidly the respondent judges typical beliefs and behavior. Respondents taking this marital intelligence test receive one displayed result with the bands; the test does not state how responses are combined or weighted.

The questionnaire is conceptually consistent with the published Mating Intelligence Scale, which frames mating intelligence as processing socially and reproductively relevant information during partner choice and courtship. Later psychometric work by Geher and colleagues examined its validity and structure, while Najarpourian and Samavi evaluated a related Iranian scale. Those studies support the construct’s relevance, but do not show that this online version is the same validated administration or uses their norms.

Interpret the band as a tendency captured by the items, not a fixed measure of desirability or outcome. Mood, experience, self-awareness, cultural expectations, and impression management can affect self-report, so the result cannot determine compatibility, deception, or future marital success.

Author: John M. Gottman
Literature:
  • Najarpourian, S., & Samavi, S. A. (2019). Psychometric Evaluation of the Mating Intelligence Scale in Iran. SAGE Open, 9(3), 1-7. 10.1177/2158244019867857
  • Geher, G., Kaufman, S. B., Garcia, J. R., Kaufman, J. C., & Dawson, B. B. (2016). The validity and structure of mating intelligence. Evolution, Mind and Behaviour, 14(1), 1-22. 10.1556/2050.2016.0001
  • Geher, G., & Kaufman, S. B. (2007). The mating intelligence scale. Psychology Today, 40(1), 78-79.
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