Am I Attracted to Men Quiz
Clarify your attraction to men across attention, romance, and desire in about 10 minutes. Free, 15 questions, instant reflective results with no sign-up and a supportive, judgment-free tone.


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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
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Physical or Sexual Interest in Men (PoSIiM)
Physical or Sexual Interest in Men (PoSIiM)
Average
9.5
Normal range
7.1 — 11.9
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15
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Romantic Interest in Men (RIiM)
Romantic Interest in Men (RIiM)
Average
4.8
Normal range
2.3 — 7.3
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0
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15
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Spontaneous Attention to Men (SAtM)
Spontaneous Attention to Men (SAtM)
Average
7.4
Normal range
5.3 — 9.6
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0
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- It is possible, but I have to deliberately place a man in that role.
- It feels natural and emotionally appealing to imagine.
- It sometimes feels right, depending on the man or the version of the future I picture.
- A man rarely or never feels like the romantic partner in that image.
- I would likely want the kiss and feel excited by it.
- I could be open to trying it, though my desire would be uncertain.
- I would prefer not to kiss him, even if I liked him as a person.
- I would feel some genuine desire, especially if trust and chemistry were present.
- I may recognize that he looks good without wanting physical contact.
- I feel a clear physical pull and may imagine kissing or touching him consensually.
- I feel little personal physical interest, even if I understand why others find him attractive.
- I sometimes feel physically drawn in, but only with particular men or in certain moods.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Am I Attracted to Men Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free 15-question Am I Attracted to Men Quiz helps you reflect on three possible parts of attraction: who catches your attention, who inspires romantic interest, and who appears in physical or sexual desire. Think about age-appropriate men and answer from your recent, typical experience rather than what you believe you should feel. Results are reflective summaries, not proof of an orientation, and attraction can be fluid, mixed, or absent. No sign-up is needed. If this topic causes distress or raises safety concerns, consider talking with a trusted, affirming person or qualified counselor.
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