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Understanding, Emotional Attraction, and Authoritativeness Test

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In four minutes, the Understanding, Emotional Attraction, and Authoritativeness Test uses 45 questions to explore how well you understand a partner, feel drawn to them, accept them as a person, and agree with their worldview, interests, and opinions. It also shows whether you see them as an example to follow, creating a profile for reflection.
Questions: 454 minutes
Understanding, Emotional Attraction, and Authoritativeness: sample question card
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How the Scales are Structured

AuthoritativenessA
Authority measures the degree of respect, acceptance, and agreement with a partner’s views, interests, and opinions.
example score7/30
7/30Lowexample score
0 – 10Low
11 – 20Moderate
21 – 30High
A score of 7 falls in the Low range, suggesting limited acceptance of the partner’s perspectives and lower perceived respect or authority in the relationship.
Emotional AttractionEA
Emotional attraction reflects how appealing the partner feels, the desire to interact, and the positive emotional impact of contact.
example score15/30
15/30Moderateexample score
0 – 10Low
11 – 20Moderate
21 – 30High
A score of 15 indicates moderate emotional attraction, suggesting generally positive contact with some fluctuations in desire for closeness or ease of communication.
UnderstandingU
Measures how clearly a person feels they understand their partner’s personality and can interpret their behavior, thoughts, and emotions.
example score11/30
11/30Low understandingexample score
0 – 14Low understanding
15 – 22Moderate understanding
23 – 30High understanding
A score of 11 falls in the Low understanding range, suggesting noticeable difficulty forming a clear picture of the partner’s traits and explaining their actions and feelings.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Couples in counseling
46%OF USERS
Partners taking therapy use it to quickly see how they understand each other, how emotionally close they feel, and how much respect is present.
Couples in a rough patch
33%OF USERS
Spouses facing frequent conflicts or distance take it to pinpoint where misunderstanding, fading attraction, or authority issues are building up.
Therapists and workshop leaders
21%OF USERS
Relationship professionals use it as a fast baseline and progress check to guide discussions and track changes over time.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
AuthorityA
You?
Average12.4
Typical rangeTypical7.4 – 17.4
Possible0 – 30
Emotional AttractionEA
You?
Average20.5
Typical rangeTypical15.5 – 25.5
Possible0 – 30
UnderstandingU
You?
Average18.7
Typical rangeTypical14.3 – 23
Possible0 – 30
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

Below are statements about your understanding of your spouse. For each item, select one response: “Yes” (this is true), “No” (this is not true), or “Don’t know” (unable to say).
    • Yes
    • No
    • Don't know
    • Yes
    • No
    • Don't know
    • Yes
    • No
    • Don't know
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Understanding, Emotional Attraction, and Authoritativeness Test - Description and methodology of the test

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People who want a clearer picture of how they experience a partner can use the Understanding, Emotional Attraction, and Authoritativeness Test as a structured relationship self-reflection exercise. It is especially relevant for relationship dynamics involving affection, curiosity, comfort, respect, and agreement. The result keeps understanding of the partner distinct from attraction and authoritativeness.

What This Assessment Explores

Items cover understanding a partner, feelings during contact, and responses to partner qualities and views. The questionnaire uses Yes, No, and Don’t know for prediction, attraction, comfort, irritation, respect, and interest in the partner’s world. Result dimensions are:

  • Understanding (0-30) measures knowledge of personality and traits; higher scores indicate ease interpreting behavior, thoughts, and feelings, while lower scores indicate difficulty explaining them. Bands: Low understanding 0-14, Moderate understanding 15-22, High understanding 23-30.
  • Emotional Attraction (0-30) measures attraction, desire for contact, and positive interaction; higher scores indicate wanting contact, while lower scores indicate communication difficulty and fatigue. Bands: Low 0-10, Moderate 11-20, High 21-30.
  • Authoritativeness (0-30) measures acceptance and agreement with the partner’s worldview, interests, and opinions; higher scores indicate seeing them as a model, while lower scores indicate disrespect or rejection. Bands: Low 0-10, Moderate 11-20, High 21-30.

Methodology and Scientific Basis

Each statement uses Yes, No, or Don’t know, making this a structured self-report rather than an interview. The items cover knowing the partner, experiencing contact, and evaluating the partner’s qualities and views. The questionnaire presents separate scale results with displayed bands; the contribution of individual responses and any norming or validation status are not specified.

Conceptually, the three-part structure is consistent with the UEA questionnaire by Volkova and Trapeznikova (1985), but this online questionnaire is not presented as an adaptation of it. Its items address knowing the partner’s patterns, the effect of contact, and the extent to which the partner’s qualities, opinions, and interests command respect or influence.

Interpret the relationship profile as a pattern: strength in one area may coexist with difficulty in another, while uncertainty may reflect limited knowledge, ambivalence, or circumstances. Self-reported answers can shift with mood, conflict, idealization, defensiveness, and self-awareness. The test is a self-reflection tool rather than a diagnosis or substitute for broader assessment. Use the profile as a prompt for specific reflection rather than a fixed judgment about the relationship.

Author: John M. Gottman, Robert J. Sternberg
Literature:
  • Volkova, A. N., & Trapeznikova, T. M. (1985). Methodological techniques for diagnosing marital relations [Psychological diagnosis of married couples]. Questions of Psychology, 5, 110-116.
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