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Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure Test

Designed for people examining culturally shaped tensions in marriage, the Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure Test contains 100 questions and takes about 19 minutes. Its results highlight areas of disagreement, including communication, roles, material needs, and family influence, supporting focused self-reflection about the relationship.

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How the Scales are Structured

Cognitive NeedsCN

Measures conflict in the couple related to unmet cognitive needs and differences in interests, including possible national-cultural distinctions.

example score2/5

2/5Moderate tensionexample score

0 – 1Low tension

2 – 3Moderate tension

4 – 5High tension

A score of 2 suggests moderate tension around cognitive needs, where differences in interests may sometimes contribute to misunderstandings but are not consistently disruptive.

Self-Concept DefenseSCD

Assesses how strongly marital conflicts are linked to protecting each partner’s self-concept in the context of national differences.

example score2/5

2/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 2 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting occasional tension around self-esteem or identity when national differences come into play, but not a dominant conflict theme.

Mutual UnderstandingMU

Assesses how well spouses understand each other’s perspectives and needs, including differences related to national or cultural background.

example score2/5

2/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 2 indicates a moderate level of mutual understanding, suggesting some shared perspective alongside recurring gaps that may contribute to tensions.

Personality TraitsPT

Measures how much marital conflict is linked to spouses’ personality traits in the context of national or cultural differences.

example score2/5

2/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 2 indicates a moderate level of conflict related to personality differences, suggesting these traits sometimes contribute to tensions alongside national or cultural factors.

RolesR

Assesses how aligned partners are in their expectations and division of family roles, including the influence of national traditions.

example score2/5

2/5Mixedexample score

0 – 1Aligned

2 – 3Mixed

4 – 5Misaligned

A score of 2 suggests a mixed level of agreement on roles, with some mismatches that may contribute to tension if left unaddressed.

Material NeedsMN

Assesses the degree of conflict related to spouses’ material needs and expectations in the context of national differences.

example score3/5

3/5Moderate tensionexample score

0 – 1Low tension

2 – 3Moderate tension

4 – 5High tension

A score of 3 indicates a moderate level of tension where differing material expectations may occasionally fuel disagreements, particularly when shaped by cultural or national norms.

Communication CultureCC

Measures how much couple conflict is linked to differences in communication norms and etiquette shaped by national traditions.

example score2/5

2/5Moderate tensionexample score

0 – 1Low tension

2 – 3Moderate tension

4 – 5High tension

A score of 2 suggests a moderate level of tension where some communication-culture differences may occasionally lead to misunderstandings but are not consistently disruptive.

Relationships With ParentsRWP

Measures the degree of conflict in a couple related to relationships with parents and relatives, including the impact of culturally shaped family involvement.

example score2/5

2/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 2 indicates a moderate level of tension around parents or relatives, suggesting occasional interference or disagreements that can contribute to conflicts.

LeisureL

Measures how closely spouses align in planning and enjoying leisure activities, including consideration of national traditions.

example score2/5

2/5Moderate alignmentexample score

0 – 1Low alignment

2 – 3Moderate alignment

4 – 5High alignment

A score of 2 suggests moderate alignment, where some shared leisure preferences exist but differences may still create occasional tension.

AwarenessA

Assesses how well spouses understand each other's national and cultural characteristics that can influence everyday expectations and conflict triggers.

example score3/5

3/5Moderate awarenessexample score

0 – 1Low awareness

2 – 3Moderate awareness

4 – 5High awareness

A score of 3 indicates moderate awareness, suggesting some knowledge of each other's national characteristics but with potential gaps that may still contribute to ethnicity-related misunderstandings.

Cognitive NeedsCN

Measures the degree of relationship tension linked to how well partners’ cognitive needs and interests are understood and supported.

example score3/5

3/5Moderate conflictexample score

0 – 1Low conflict

2 – 3Moderate conflict

4 – 5High conflict

A score of 3 suggests a moderate level of conflict where differences in interests or ways of thinking sometimes lead to misunderstandings but are not consistently disruptive.

Self-Concept DefenseSCD

Measures how much marital conflict is linked to protecting personal boundaries and self-esteem in the relationship.

example score3/5

3/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 3 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting a noticeable but not pervasive tendency for disagreements to involve issues of self-respect and boundary protection.

Mutual UnderstandingMU

Measures how well spouses understand each other in communication and alignment of interests.

example score2/5

2/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 2 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting partial mutual understanding with some communication or interest-alignment difficulties likely present.

Personal QualitiesPQ

Assesses how much relationship conflict is linked to differences in the partners’ personality traits and character styles.

example score2/5

2/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 2 suggests a moderate level of conflict related to personal qualities, where character differences sometimes complicate interaction but are not consistently dominant.

RolesR

Measures how much spouses agree on the distribution of family roles and responsibilities.

example score3/5

3/5Moderate agreementexample score

0 – 1Low agreement

2 – 3Moderate agreement

4 – 5High agreement

A score of 3 indicates moderate agreement on family roles, suggesting some shared understanding alongside areas that may still cause friction.

Material NeedsMN

Measures the degree of couple conflict related to meeting and aligning material and financial needs.

example score2/5

2/5Moderate tensionexample score

0 – 1Low tension

2 – 3Moderate tension

4 – 5High tension

A score of 2 suggests a moderate level of tension around material expectations, indicating occasional disagreements that may benefit from clearer alignment of priorities.

Communication CultureCC

Measures the degree of relationship tension linked to how constructively and respectfully spouses communicate.

example score3/5

3/5Moderate tensionexample score

0 – 1Low tension

2 – 3Moderate tension

4 – 5High tension

A score of 3 indicates moderate tension related to communication culture, suggesting recurring misunderstandings or lapses in constructive dialogue.

Relationships With ParentsRWP

Measures how much tension and conflict in the marriage is linked to interactions with parents and other relatives.

example score2/5

2/5Moderateexample score

0 – 1Low

2 – 3Moderate

4 – 5High

A score of 2 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting occasional or situational strain related to parents or relatives that may sometimes affect the couple’s interactions.

LeisureL

Measures how well spouses’ preferences and expectations align when planning and spending shared leisure time.

example score3/5

3/5Moderate alignmentexample score

0 – 1Low alignment

2 – 3Moderate alignment

4 – 5High alignment

A score of 3 suggests a moderate level of leisure alignment, with some shared activities but noticeable differences that may require negotiation.

AwarenessA

Assesses how well spouses are informed about each other and their interactions, where higher scores suggest information gaps that can fuel conflict.

example score3/5

3/5Some gapsexample score

0 – 1Well-informed

2 – 3Some gaps

4 – 5Significant gaps

A score of 3 falls in the “Some gaps” range, suggesting there may be noticeable areas where partners lack information about each other that could contribute to misunderstandings.

National Conflict Index (K'zh)NCI

Assesses how strongly marital conflicts are influenced by differences in the spouses’ national and cultural backgrounds.

example score24/50

24/50Moderateexample score

0 – 16Low

17 – 33Moderate

34 – 50High

A score of 24 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting cultural or ethnic differences sometimes contribute to disagreements but are not the predominant driver of conflict.

Personal Conflict Proneness (Wife) (Kzh)PCP

Measures the intensity of marital conflicts driven by personal traits and mismatched individual needs between spouses.

example score37/50

37/50Highexample score

0 – 16Low

17 – 33Moderate

34 – 50High

A score of 37 falls in the High range, suggesting that personality-related incompatibilities and conflicting needs are a prominent source of tension in the relationship.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Couples in escalating conflict

46%OF USERS

Partners who argue often and want to pinpoint what exactly triggers clashes and how tense the relationship has become.

Multinational or intercultural couples

33%OF USERS

Couples from different cultural or ethnic backgrounds who want to separate personal incompatibilities from culture-related misunderstandings.

Therapists and family counselors

21%OF USERS

Professionals who use a structured questionnaire for quick screening and deeper analysis of conflict sources in couples.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.

Shaded area — where most people score

Dot — the average

You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test

Cognitive NeedsCN

You?

Average3.3

Typical rangeTypical2.6 – 4.1

Possible0 – 5

Protection of the Self-ConceptPotS

You?

Average2.1

Typical rangeTypical1.2 – 3

Possible0 – 5

Mutual UnderstandingMU

You?

Average1.8

Typical rangeTypical0.9 – 2.7

Possible0 – 5

Personal qualitiesPq

You?

Average1.9

Typical rangeTypical1.2 – 2.6

Possible0 – 5

RolesR

You?

Average1.3

Typical rangeTypical0.6 – 2.1

Possible0 – 5

Material NeedsMN

You?

Average2.9

Typical rangeTypical2.1 – 3.7

Possible0 – 5

Communication CultureCC

You?

Average2.8

Typical rangeTypical2 – 3.6

Possible0 – 5

Relationships with ParentsRwP

You?

Average2.2

Typical rangeTypical1.6 – 2.9

Possible0 – 5

LeisureL

You?

Average2.4

Typical rangeTypical1.8 – 3.1

Possible0 – 5

AwarenessA

You?

Average2.6

Typical rangeTypical1.8 – 3.3

Possible0 – 5

Cognitive NeedsCN

You?

Average2.2

Typical rangeTypical1.5 – 3

Possible0 – 5

Protection of the Self-ConceptPotS

You?

Average2.2

Typical rangeTypical1.5 – 3

Possible0 – 5

Mutual UnderstandingMU

You?

Average2.2

Typical rangeTypical1.4 – 3

Possible0 – 5

Personal qualitiesPq

You?

Average3.5

Typical rangeTypical2.7 – 4.3

Possible0 – 5

RolesR

You?

Average3.6

Typical rangeTypical3 – 4.3

Possible0 – 5

Material needsMn

You?

Average2.2

Typical rangeTypical1.5 – 2.9

Possible0 – 5

Communication CultureCC

You?

Average1.3

Typical rangeTypical0.6 – 2

Possible0 – 5

Relationships with ParentsRwP

You?

Average2.7

Typical rangeTypical2 – 3.4

Possible0 – 5

LeisureL

You?

Average1.4

Typical rangeTypical0.5 – 2.3

Possible0 – 5

AwarenessA

You?

Average3.4

Typical rangeTypical2.5 – 4.4

Possible0 – 5

National Conflictiness Index K'zhNCIK

You?

Average33.2

Typical rangeTypical26.5 – 39.8

Possible0 – 50

Personal Conflictiveness Indicator KzhPCIK

You?

Average20.5

Typical rangeTypical12.6 – 28.4

Possible0 – 50

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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

- This does not apply to me
- No, this does not worry me
- Yes, but it worries me only a little
- Yes, this definitely worries me
- Yes, this worries me a great deal
- Yes, this worries me extremely
- This does not apply to me
- No, it does not bother me
- Yes, but it bothers me only a little
- Yes, it definitely bothers me
- Yes, it bothers me a lot
- Yes, it bothers me extremely
- This does not apply to me
- No, this does not bother me
- Yes, but this bothers me only a little
- Yes, this definitely bothers me
- Yes, this bothers me a lot
- Yes, this bothers me extremely

These are 3 of the 100 real questions — the rest appear in the test. No sign-up needed to start.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure Test - Description and methodology of the test

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When recurring disagreements involve several parts of family life, this questionnaire helps a spouse identify topics for closer reflection. The Assessment of Marital Conflict in the Family Role Structure Test maps expectations, communication, roles, and cultural differences. As a marital conflict assessment, it helps decide which patterns merit attention.

What the Test Measures

This marital conflict questionnaire describes conflict. Scales are:

Cognitive Needs, Self-Concept Defense, Mutual Understanding, and Personality Traits (0-5) assess interests, self-respect, understanding, and personality conflict; Bands: Low tension/Moderate tension/High tension; Low/Moderate/High; Low/Moderate/High; Low tension/Moderate tension/High tension.
Roles, Material Needs, Communication Culture, and Relationships With Parents (0-5) assess role agreement, material needs, communication norms, and family influence; Bands: Aligned/Mixed/Misaligned; Low tension/Moderate tension/High tension; Low tension/Moderate tension/High tension; Low/Moderate/High.
Leisure and Awareness (0-5) assess leisure agreement and cultural awareness; Bands: Low alignment/Moderate alignment/High alignment and Low awareness/Moderate awareness/High awareness.
National Conflict Index (K'zh) and Personal Conflict Proneness (Wife) (Kzh) (0-50 each) assess cultural conflict and wife-specific personality-related proneness; use Low 0-16, Moderate 17-33, High 34-50.

Methodology and Evidence Base

Each item describes a marital situation and asks whether it does not apply or causes increasing concern, bother, or distress across six response choices. Thematic grouping links responses to subscales and two broader indices. In this family role structure test, scores appear as subscale and composite ranges; the questionnaire’s response-to-score conversion is not documented, so displayed bands are descriptive categories rather than an assumed formula.

Methodologically, the questionnaire is conceptually consistent with Levkovich and Zuskova (1987), the closest source for its marital-conflict themes. Levkovich (1990) supports attention to mixed-nationality differences in expectations, communication, and roles. Mackey and O'Brien (1998) add a related perspective on gender and ethnic influences in conflict management; this questionnaire is not an adaptation of that study.

Interpret each result by its scale-specific label: a high band may indicate tension, conflict, gaps, misalignment, or alignment, depending on the construct. Broader indices describe cultural conflict and wife-specific conflict proneness. Self-report results may shift with current disputes, memory, cultural assumptions, or disclosure comfort.

Author: John M. Gottman

Literature:

Levkovich, V. P., & Zuskova, O. E. (1987). Methodology for Diagnosing Marital Relationships. Questions of Psychology, 4, 128-135.
Levkovich, V. P. (1990). Characteristics of Marital Relationships in Mixed-Nationality Families. Psychological Journal, 11(2), 25-36.
Mackey, R. A., & O'Brien, B. A. (1998). Marital Conflict Management: Gender and Ethnic Differences. Social Work, 43(2), 128-141. 10.1093/sw/43.2.128

Updated: 2025-10-02