Is He Flirting with Me Quiz

In 10 minutes, clarify whether his behavior feels flirty, friendly, or just comfortable. Get a free 15 question snapshot of patterns to guide an honest talk, not mind reading.
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July 22, 2026
July 22, 2026
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How the Scales are Structured

example score
9/15
Consistent Connection-Building (CCB)
This scale measures how consistently he initiates contact, follows through on plans, and creates opportunities to deepen the connection.
Limited signal
Mixed signal
Stronger pattern
0NaNLimited signal6NaNMixed signal11NaNStronger pattern
A score of 9 suggests a mixed signal, where he shows some effort to connect but the pattern is not reliably consistent or remains socially ambiguous.
example score
7/15
Focused Attention (FA)
Measures how consistently he directs individualized attention, curiosity, and engagement toward you.
Limited signal
Mixed signal
Stronger pattern
0NaNLimited signal6NaNMixed signal11NaNStronger pattern
A score of 7 suggests you’re seeing meaningful engagement at times, but it isn’t consistent or could still have other plausible explanations.
example score
7/15
Personal and Playful Signals (PaPS)
Measures how personally suggestive or playfully charged his words and manner seem compared with his general friendliness.
Limited signal
Mixed signal
Stronger pattern
0NaNLimited signal6NaNMixed signal11NaNStronger pattern
A score of 7 suggests a mixed signal, where a few interactions may feel flirtatious but the context still allows for friendly or casual explanations.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Crushing but unsure
41%OF USERS
They like a guy and want help interpreting mixed signals without overthinking every interaction.
Friends-to-more hopeful
34%OF USERS
They have an established friendship and are trying to tell if the vibe is shifting toward something romantic.
Work or class confusion
25%OF USERS
They see him regularly in a shared setting and want to separate genuine flirting from politeness or comfort.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Consistent Connection-Building (CC)
Average
9.6
Normal range
7.212.1
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Focused Attention (FA)
Average
4
Normal range
1.36.8
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15
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Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Personal and Playful Signals (PaPS)
Average
9.8
Normal range
7.212.5
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15
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Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It organizes observable interaction patterns that may be consistent with flirting, friendliness, or comfort. Results describe tendencies in behavior, not hidden intentions.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
Completion typically takes about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 15 questions.
How should answers be selected?
Select the option that best matches what has happened in recent interactions. Use typical patterns rather than one-time events.
Can results confirm attraction or consent?
No; results cannot confirm attraction, consent, or relationship intent. Use results as a prompt for direct communication and clear boundaries.
What factors can affect how signals are interpreted?
Culture, personality, setting, and communication style can change the meaning of the same behavior. Consider context and consistency across situations.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Is He Flirting with Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Is he flirting, being friendly, or simply comfortable around you? Reflect on the attention he gives you, the personal or playful signals you notice, and whether he consistently tries to build a connection. This free, no-sign-up quiz organizes observable patterns without claiming to read his mind. Personality, culture, setting, and communication style can change what a gesture means, so treat your results as a conversation aid—not proof of attraction or consent.

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