Am I Afraid of Love Quiz
In 10 minutes, see whether fear is shaping how you approach love and closeness. Get clear scores across key areas to guide reflection and next steps.
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BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Closeness and Autonomy (CaA)
Closeness and Autonomy (CaA)
Average
4
Normal range
1.3 — 6.7
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15
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Emotional Vulnerability (EV)
Emotional Vulnerability (EV)
Average
7.6
Normal range
5.2 — 10
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0
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15
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Trust and Anticipated Hurt (TaAH)
Trust and Anticipated Hurt (TaAH)
Average
9.9
Normal range
7.8 — 12
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0
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I appreciate it, although being the focus feels slightly awkward
- I minimize the compliment or quickly redirect attention
- I let myself take it in and respond genuinely
- I wonder what prompted it and struggle to fully accept it
- Meaningful and manageable, even though it carries weight
- So exposing that I would rather avoid saying it
- Exciting, with some nerves about choosing the right moment
- Like something I should delay until I can feel completely certain
- Assume they are occupied and continue with my day
- Expect that they are losing interest and become distant myself
- Wonder about it, but wait for more information
- Review recent conversations for signs that something changed
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Am I Afraid of Love Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Take this free, no-sign-up self-reflection quiz to explore whether fear may be shaping how you approach love. Fifteen questions examine emotional vulnerability, expectations of hurt, and reactions to closeness or commitment. You will receive a separate reflective score for each area rather than one definitive label. This quiz is not a diagnosis or a validated clinical assessment. If relationship fears cause significant distress or keep you from forming connections you want, consider speaking with someone you trust or a qualified counselor.
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