Intimacy Quiz 36 Questions

In about 10 minutes, clarify emotional openness, physical comfort, and shared presence in a current or recent relationship. Get three clear scores fast, free, and with no sign-up.
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July 22, 2026
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4/15
Affection and Physical Ease (AaPE)
Measures comfort with consensual physical affection, welcome touch, and communication during physical intimacy.
Space-Oriented
Contextual Warmth
Touch-Forward
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A score of 4 falls in the Space-Oriented range, suggesting you tend to prefer limited, deliberate, or highly predictable physical closeness.
example score
8/15
Emotional Openness (EO)
Emotional Openness reflects how readily you share vulnerable feelings, personal meaning, and support needs with your partner.
Private Processing
Selective Sharing
Open Exchange
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A score of 8 suggests selective sharing—opening up in some moments while keeping certain feelings or details protected.
example score
8/15
Shared Presence (SP)
Shared Presence reflects how intentionally you create focused attention, respond to bids for connection, and reconnect after distraction or tension.
Parallel Rhythm
Available Connection
Intentional Presence
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A score of 8 suggests you tend to create focused time together when circumstances or clear needs bring it forward, with some consistency but not as a constant default.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Couples feeling disconnected
41%OF USERS
Partners who sense distance or mixed signals use it to pinpoint whether the gap is emotional openness, physical affection, or shared presence.
People dating and unsure
34%OF USERS
Those in a new or on-and-off relationship take it to clarify what closeness currently looks like versus what they hope for.
Reflecting after a breakup
25%OF USERS
People coming out of a relationship use it to understand patterns around vulnerability, consented touch, and feeling truly together.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Affection and Physical Ease (AaPE)
Average
6.7
Normal range
4.58.8
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Emotional Openness (EO)
Average
8.3
Normal range
6.110.5
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15
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Shared Presence (SP)
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3.8
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1.75.9
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15
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It provides three summary scores for emotional openness, consensual physical affection, and shared presence in a current or recent relationship. Results describe typical patterns and are not diagnostic.
How long does it take and how many items are included?
It includes 15 items and takes about 10 minutes to complete.
How should responses be selected?
Choose the option that best reflects usual experience rather than an ideal or intended behavior. If more than one option seems accurate, select the one that applies most often.
How should the scores be interpreted?
Higher or lower scores indicate relative strengths or constraints in each area of closeness. They do not indicate relationship quality, compatibility, or what a relationship should look like.
Can the quiz be used for relationships that are not current?
Yes, items can be answered based on a recent relationship when a current relationship is not available. Use a single relationship as the reference for all responses.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Intimacy Quiz 36 Questions - Symptoms and Signs

Looking for the kind of insight associated with an “intimacy quiz 36 questions”? This focused 15-item check-in explores three parts of closeness in a current or recent relationship: emotional openness, consensual physical affection, and shared presence. Choose what most closely reflects your usual experience rather than what seems ideal. Your three scores are reflective summaries—not diagnoses, compatibility ratings, or judgments about how affectionate a relationship should be. Free to take, with no sign-up needed.

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