Am I Ready to Get Engaged Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1A recurring disagreement becomes heated, and one of you is too overwhelmed to continue productively. What usually happens next?
  • We keep talking in the moment, even if one of us becomes defensive or shuts down.
  • We pause and agree on a specific time to return when both of us can participate.
  • We drop the subject and hope it loses importance over time.
  • We separate for a while and wait for one person to decide when to restart it.
• 2When you consider the enduring traits or habits that frustrate you about your partner, which statement fits best?
  • I often imagine the relationship would be right if my partner became significantly different.
  • I understand and broadly accept those traits while remaining clear about my boundaries.
  • I expect engagement or marriage to change most of the traits that concern me.
  • I accept much of who my partner is, but one important concern still needs attention.
• 3When you need to raise a concern that might disappoint your partner, what are you most likely to do?
  • Name it clearly, listen to the response, and stay engaged without abandoning my position.
  • Wait for a calmer opportunity and rehearse how to explain it before speaking.
  • Soften or hint at it so much that the main concern may not be fully understood.
  • Avoid raising it unless circumstances make the conversation unavoidable.