Am I Losing Feelings for My Boyfriend Quiz
In 10 minutes, clarify whether your feelings are shifting or if stress and routine are creating distance. Get a clear snapshot of connection, attraction, and commitment with 15 questions, no sign-up.
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Emotional Connection (EC)
Emotional Connection (EC)
Average
4.2
Normal range
1.7 — 6.8
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15
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Relationship Investment (RI)
Relationship Investment (RI)
Average
7.2
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4.7 — 9.8
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15
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Romantic Affection and Attraction (RAaA)
Romantic Affection and Attraction (RAaA)
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3.8
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1 — 6.6
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- To create significant distance or end the romantic relationship.
- To keep choosing the relationship and deepen it over time.
- To stay for now while honestly reassessing what I want.
- To step back emotionally and avoid making further commitments.
- Occasionally, although those moments feel less vivid or frequent.
- Frequently enough that attraction still feels like an active part of the relationship.
- Almost never; I mostly experience him without a romantic lens now.
- Rarely, and I often have to deliberately recall what once attracted me.
- I want to contribute, provided the effort and responsibility are shared.
- I feel conflicted: some effort seems worthwhile, but my motivation varies.
- I would prefer to reduce my involvement rather than keep working on the relationship.
- I can keep things going, but I have little enthusiasm for actively improving them.
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Am I Losing Feelings for My Boyfriend Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering whether your feelings have changed—or whether stress, routine, or a difficult season is creating distance? This 15-question self-reflection quiz explores your emotional connection, romantic affection and attraction, and willingness to invest in the relationship. Review each result separately to spot where feelings remain present and where uncertainty may be growing. It is not a diagnosis or a definitive answer about whether to stay or leave, but it can help you prepare for honest reflection or conversation. No sign-up is needed.
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