Is It Cheating Quiz
Understand whether your relationship behavior may be crossing lines in about 10 minutes. Get a quick, free 15 question snapshot of boundaries, secrecy, and redirected energy with no sign up.
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Boundary Alignment (BA)
Boundary Alignment (BA)
Average
8.9
Normal range
6.6 — 11.2
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15
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Outside Intimacy and Investment (OIaI)
Outside Intimacy and Investment (OIaI)
Average
4.4
Normal range
1.7 — 7.1
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15
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Secrecy and Misrepresentation (SaM)
Secrecy and Misrepresentation (SaM)
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4.3
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2.1 — 6.5
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- We discussed the circumstances and mutually revised or confirmed the boundary before I went.
- I went once for a practical reason and explained it openly soon afterward.
- I went more than once while leaving our disagreement unresolved.
- I kept arranging the outings despite knowing the boundary remained clear to my partner.
- I represented where I was, who was there, and the nature of the meeting accurately.
- I mentioned the meeting but did not volunteer every detail because it seemed personal.
- I described it in a way designed to make the connection seem less significant.
- I invented a different account of where I was or whom I was with.
- We clarified the change before either of us acted on it.
- I followed our past pattern while waiting for a suitable time to discuss it.
- I acted on my preferred interpretation even though the issue was unresolved.
- I treated the uncertainty as permission to do something I knew might breach our agreement.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Is It Cheating Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Use this free, quick, no-sign-up quiz to reflect on conduct in your current or most recent committed relationship. It explores three factors often involved in questions about cheating: crossing agreed boundaries, hiding relevant interactions, and directing romantic, emotional, or sexual energy elsewhere. Results are reflective summaries, not proof or a universal verdict; relationship agreements and context matter. If an experience was forced or non-consensual, responsibility lies with the person who caused it—not with you. Consider trusted or professional support if the situation involves coercion, threats, or fear.
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