Ineffective Conflict Resolution Inventory (IAI) Test

How the Scales are Structured
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Example Questions From the Test
- Does not apply at all
- Does not apply
- Sometimes applies, sometimes does not
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- Fully applies
- Completely untrue
- Not true
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- Sometimes describes us, sometimes does not
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Ineffective Conflict Resolution Inventory (IAI) Test - Description and methodology of the test
For people who want to understand why disagreements become stuck, the Ineffective Conflict Resolution Inventory (IAI) Test offers a focused way to examine recurring interaction patterns. It is suited to individuals or partners reflecting on listening, avoidance, unfinished discussions, and recognition that improvement may be needed. As a conflict resolution self-assessment, it turns those observations into a result that can guide more specific reflection.
What This Assessment Explores
The questionnaire measures how far disagreements tend toward ineffective resolution, including unequal listening, repeated fights, unfinished discussions, multi-day disputes, deadlock, and awareness that better strategies may be needed. It is intended for people reflecting on recurring relationship patterns rather than judging a single argument.
Alongside difficult situations, some prompts describe fair problem-solving and quickly forgotten arguments. The conflict resolution questionnaire therefore gives a broad pattern-level result.
The items cover four practical themes, not separate scales:
- Mutual listening shows whether both people hear one another.
- Closure indicates whether disagreements reach an endpoint.
- Repetition captures expectations of another familiar fight.
- Recognition of difficulty shows when the prompts point to a need for improvement.
The displayed Ineffective Conflict Resolution scale ranges from 1-5: More effective (1-1.4), Mixed effectiveness (1.5-3.3), and Less effective (3.4-5). Higher scores indicate greater ineffectiveness; lower scores indicate more effective resolution.
Methodology and Scientific Basis
Each item uses a five-point response format, with options that describe degree of applicability, truth, or fit. The questionnaire presents one displayed result; its bands organize interpretation rather than supplying population norms.
At the item level, this questionnaire is an online adaptation of Kurdek’s eight-item Ineffective Arguing Inventory; its scoring display is specific to this version and does not automatically inherit the published instrument’s evidence. The online version has no population-norm standardization; its displayed bands are interpretive categories rather than normative cutoffs.
In practical use, this online conflict resolution inventory is a structured personal snapshot. As a self-report, current tension, memory, self-awareness, willingness to disclose, and differing partner perspectives can affect responses. Higher results point toward ineffective strategies such as avoidance, acquiescence, or difficulty sustaining constructive dialogue; lower results suggest more effective handling within the situations covered.
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