Am I Desperate for Love Quiz
Learn in 10 minutes whether the drive for love is shaping your choices. Get clear score bands across urgency, self-sacrifice, and reassurance seeking to guide healthier relationship decisions.
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BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Love Urgency and Preoccupation (LUaP)
Love Urgency and Preoccupation (LUaP)
Average
6.3
Normal range
3.6 — 9
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15
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Need for Romantic Reassurance (NfRR)
Need for Romantic Reassurance (NfRR)
Average
3.8
Normal range
2 — 5.6
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0
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15
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Self-Abandonment for Connection (SfC)
Self-Abandonment for Connection (SfC)
Average
4.3
Normal range
2.4 — 6.1
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0
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I soften it considerably, hoping they will not see it as demanding
- I usually keep it to myself because asking could create distance
- I state it respectfully, knowing they may respond differently than I hope
- I wait for hints to work, then speak up only if the need becomes urgent
- It would feel deeply unsettling and make me want to find someone quickly
- I would see meaningful possibilities in that time, even if I still wanted love
- It would feel disappointing, but manageable alongside the rest of my life
- It would feel almost intolerable, as though I were running out of time
- Continue with my plans and check for a reply later
- Check my phone a few times while wondering what the silence means
- Keep checking and find it difficult to focus on anything else
- Send several follow-ups because waiting feels unbearable
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Am I Desperate for Love Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering whether the search for love is beginning to run your choices? This free, no-sign-up quiz explores three patterns: urgency to find a relationship, sacrificing your needs to preserve connection, and relying on romantic reassurance. It offers reflective score bands rather than a diagnosis or a verdict about your worth. Answer according to what you usually do, not what seems ideal. If dating involves pressure, threats, coercion, or harm, the quiz cannot assess your safety; consider contacting a trusted person or an appropriate local support service.
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