Does My Ex Miss Me Quiz

Understand whether your ex may still miss you in about 10 minutes. Get a clearer read on recent contact and effort patterns with 15 quick questions and grounded feedback.
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July 22, 2026
July 22, 2026
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How the Scales are Structured

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8/15
Contact Initiative and Consistency (CIaC)
This scale measures how often your ex initiates and maintains nonessential contact over the past six to eight weeks.
Mostly responsive
Mixed signals
Consistent initiative
05Mostly responsive610Mixed signals1115Consistent initiative
A score of 8 suggests mixed signals, with some voluntary outreach or follow-through that is present but not steady or clearly sustained.
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5/15
Emotional Engagement and Nostalgia (EEaN)
Measures the degree of warmth, curiosity, personal reflection, and nostalgic attention your ex shows in recent interactions.
Limited engagement
Some connection
Strong engagement
05Limited engagement610Some connection1115Strong engagement
A score of 5 suggests your recent exchanges show limited emotional engagement, with interactions tending to stay neutral, brief, or task-focused.
example score
10/15
Reconnection Intent and Follow-Through (RIaFT)
Measures whether your ex combines expressed interest with respectful, concrete steps and consistent follow-through toward reconnecting.
Little active intent
Tentative openness
Clear reconnection effort
05Little active intent610Tentative openness1115Clear reconnection effort
A score of 10 suggests tentative openness, meaning there are some signs of interest or attempts to connect, but consistency and concrete follow-through remain mixed.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Recently broken up
44%OF USERS
People in the first weeks or months after a breakup who are replaying mixed signals and want a clearer read on what their ex’s recent behavior suggests.
On-and-off reconnecters
33%OF USERS
Those who have occasional contact or hookups and are trying to tell the difference between comfort contact and real interest in rebuilding things.
Closure seekers
23%OF USERS
People considering reaching out for closure or reconciliation who want to check patterns over the last 6–8 weeks before making a respectful move.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Contact Initiative and Consistency (CIaC)
Average
8.9
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Emotional Engagement and Nostalgia (EEaN)
Average
5.7
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3.67.7
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Reconnection Intent and Follow-Through (RIaF)
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9.9
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It summarizes recent, observable indicators that may be consistent with ongoing interest, such as contact patterns, emotional engagement, and efforts to reconnect. It does not determine another person’s thoughts or intentions.
What time period should responses cover?
Base answers on behavior from the past six to eight weeks. Do not rely on a single unusually positive or negative event.
How should uncertain or mixed behavior be rated?
Select the option that best reflects the overall pattern across multiple interactions. If evidence is limited, use the more conservative response.
How should the results be interpreted?
Results indicate patterns in the responses and may support reflection on communication and boundaries. They cannot confirm a desire to reunite; direct, respectful communication is the clearest guide.
How long does it take and how many items are included?
Completion typically takes about 10 minutes. The quiz contains 15 questions.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Does My Ex Miss Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Wondering if your ex still thinks about you? This free, no-sign-up quiz helps you reflect on observable signs across contact, emotional engagement, and genuine reconnection effort. Answer using your ex’s behavior during the past six to eight weeks rather than one unusually warm or difficult moment. The results can highlight patterns, but they cannot reveal another person’s thoughts or prove that they want to reunite. Direct, respectful communication remains the clearest guide.

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