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Family Emotional Communication Scale Test

In about 6 minutes, the Family Emotional Communication Scale Test presents 30 questions about worry, criticism, control, emotional expression, and protection in family relationships. Its results can support self-reflection by highlighting remembered family communication tendencies and patterns around feelings, worry, criticism, and control.

Questions: 306 minutes

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How the Scales are Structured

Family PerfectionismFP

Measures the extent to which the family environment emphasized very high standards and a drive for perfection during upbringing.

example score5/9

5/9Moderateexample score

0 – 3Low

4 – 6Moderate

7 – 9High

A score of 5 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting some emphasis on high standards in the family without it being a consistently dominant theme.

OverinvolvementO

This scale measures the degree of parental hyper-involvement marked by excessive caretaking, monitoring, and control over the child’s life.

example score4/9

4/9Moderateexample score

0 – 3Low

4 – 9Moderate

A score of 4 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting a noticeable tendency toward parental over-involvement and control without necessarily being pervasive.

External Well-BeingEWB

External Well-being measures the tendency of a family to present itself as problem-free by minimizing, hiding, or denying difficulties to others.

example score6/9

6/9Some image managementexample score

0 – 3Open/realistic presentation

4 – 6Some image management

7 – 9Strong concealment tendency

A score of 6 suggests a moderate tendency to smooth over or downplay family difficulties in front of others, with some preference for maintaining a positive outward image.

Negative FocusNF

Measures the extent to which the family tended to dwell on negative emotions and become absorbed in each other’s negative moods.

example score4/9

4/9Moderate fixationexample score

0 – 3Low fixation

4 – 6Moderate fixation

7 – 9High fixation

A score of 4 suggests a moderate tendency for the family atmosphere to linger on negative feelings at times, without being consistently dominated by them.

Elimination of EmotionsEoE

Measures the degree to which emotional expression—especially negative emotions—was discouraged or suppressed in the family of origin.

example score13/18

13/18Emotion eliminationexample score

0 – 5Open expression

6 – 11Mixed messages

12 – 18Emotion elimination

A score of 13 falls in the Emotion elimination range, suggesting emotions were often minimized or discouraged, which can be associated with a habit of holding feelings back.

Induction of AnxietyIoA

Measures the degree to which parents emphasized potential dangers, setbacks, and difficulties, fostering anxious expectations in the child.

example score11/15

11/15Highexample score

0 – 4Low

5 – 10Moderate

11 – 15High

A score of 11 falls in the High range, suggesting recollections of a family atmosphere where potential problems were frequently highlighted, which may have promoted anxious anticipation.

CriticismC

Measures how often a child’s negative emotions or mistakes were met with criticism or comparison to other children in the family.

example score12/21

12/21High criticismexample score

0 – 4Low criticism

5 – 10Moderate criticism

11 – 21High criticism

A score of 12 falls in the High criticism range, suggesting that expressions of negative emotion or mistakes were often met with criticism or comparison in the family context.

Overall Family Dysfunction ScoreOFDS

Measures the overall degree of disruption in emotional communication and relational functioning in the family of origin.

example score63/90

63/90High dysfunctionexample score

0 – 35Low dysfunction

36 – 57Moderate dysfunction

58 – 90High dysfunction

A score of 63 falls in the High dysfunction range, suggesting more frequent or intense disruptions in family emotional communication that may have shaped current relational patterns.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Therapy-ready self explorers

41%OF USERS

Adults starting or considering therapy who want to understand how their family-of-origin emotional patterns still affect relationships, mood, or self-esteem.

Clients stuck in relationship cycles

34%OF USERS

People noticing repeated conflict, distancing, or people-pleasing in partnerships or friendships who suspect these habits were learned at home.

Adult children of tense homes

25%OF USERS

Adults who grew up with high conflict, silence, criticism, or emotional neglect and want clearer language for what felt “off” in the family atmosphere.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.

Shaded area — where most people score

Dot — the average

You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test

Family PerfectionismFP

You?

Average2.6

Typical rangeTypical1 – 4.1

Possible0 – 9

HypervigilanceH

You?

Average2.4

Typical rangeTypical0.9 – 4

Possible0 – 9

External Well-beingEW

You?

Average2.6

Typical rangeTypical1.2 – 4

Possible0 – 9

Fixation on the NegativeFotN

You?

Average5.6

Typical rangeTypical4.4 – 6.8

Possible0 – 9

Eliminating EmotionsEE

You?

Average10.8

Typical rangeTypical7.5 – 14

Possible0 – 18

Inducing AnxietyIA

You?

Average7.5

Typical rangeTypical5.5 – 9.6

Possible0 – 15

CriticismC

You?

Average13.7

Typical rangeTypical10.9 – 16.5

Possible0 – 21

Overall Family Dysfunction ScoreOFDS

You?

Average48.7

Typical rangeTypical35.2 – 62.2

Possible0 – 90

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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

Indicate your agreement or disagreement with each of the statements below based on your experience of living in your family of origin. For statements referring to mother and father, respond affirmatively if the statement accurately describes the behavior of at least one parent.

- Definitely yes
- Probably yes
- Probably no
- Definitely no
- Definitely yes
- Probably yes
- Probably no
- Definitely no
- Definitely yes
- Probably yes
- Probably no
- Definitely no

These are 3 of the 30 real questions — the rest appear in the test. No sign-up needed to start.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Family Emotional Communication Scale Test - Description and methodology of the test

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For adults reflecting on childhood family life, the Family Emotional Communication Scale Test offers a structured way to examine how feelings, worry, mistakes, and protection were handled at home. The profile is a structured family communication assessment, highlighting recurring emotional patterns and organizing remembered interactions around its measured tendencies.

What the Questionnaire Measures

The assessment groups these dimensions within its family emotional communication scale:

Induction of Anxiety (0-15) measures danger/failure worry: Low 0-4; Moderate 5-10; High 11-15. Family Perfectionism (0-9) measures perfectionistic standards: Low 0-3; Moderate 4-6; High 7-9.
Overinvolvement (0-9) measures protective control: Low 0-3; Moderate 4-9. External Well-Being (0-9) measures concealment: Open/realistic presentation 0-3; Some image management 4-6; Strong concealment tendency 7-9.
Negative Focus (0-9) measures negative fixation and mood absorption: Low fixation 0-3; Moderate 4-6; High fixation 7-9. Elimination of Emotions (0-18) measures emotional suppression: Open expression 0-5; Mixed messages 6-11; Emotion elimination 12-18.
Criticism (0-21) measures criticism/comparison after mistakes: Low criticism 0-4; Moderate criticism 5-10; High criticism 11-21.
Overall Family Dysfunction Score (0-90) measures emotional-communication impairment: Low dysfunction 0-35; Moderate 36-57; High 58-90.

Methodology and Scientific Basis

Four response options-Definitely yes, Probably yes, Probably no, and Definitely no-ask about remembered family interactions. Items cover disclosure, affection, restraint, worry, protection, failure, comparison, criticism, and parental involvement, capturing perceived communication patterns rather than objective observations.

Responses form the displayed dimensions and overall score. Item-level weighting is unspecified, so a range cannot show how many points one answer contributes. Read dimensions together, not as a single verdict.

For interpretation, this family emotional communication questionnaire is best read as a profile: each displayed band describes its named tendency, while the overall band summarizes emotional-communication difficulty.

The methodology is conceptually consistent with the Family Emotional Communication Test (Kholmogorova et al., 2016), a published instrument with standardization work; this online questionnaire is not established as the same version or as having identical norms.

Retrospective self-report can be shaped by memory, current context, self-awareness, and impression management, so scores describe remembered tendencies rather than independently observed family behavior.

Author: James A. Coan, John H. Gottman

Literature:

Kholmogorova, A. B., Volikova, S. V., & Sorokova, M. G. (2016). Standardization of the Test "Family Emotional Communication." Counseling Psychology and Psychotherapy, 24(4), 97-125. 10.17759/cpp.2016240405
Odintsova, M. A., Lubovsky, D. V., Borodkova, V. I., Kozyreva, N. V., & Vericheva, O. N. (2023). Profiles of Family Resilience and Vitality of Representatives of Russian and Belarusian Families. Cultural-Historical Psychology, 19(3), 81-92. 10.17759/chp.2023190310

Updated: 2025-10-02