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Emotion Regulation (Situations) Test

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With 20 questions completed in about 4 minutes, the Emotion Regulation (Situations) Test explores how you manage your own emotions and influence or support other people's emotional states. Your result shows patterns in personal emotion management and in comforting, motivating, or helping others cope, highlighting strengths and areas for reflection.
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Scale Explorer

How the Scales are Structured

Regulation of Others' EmotionsRoOE
Measures how effectively you can influence and stabilize other people’s emotions through comfort, support, and motivation in real-life situations.
example score48/100
48/100Developingexample score
0 – 40Limited
41 – 70Developing
71 – 100Strong
A score of 48 falls in the Developing range, suggesting you can sometimes help others regulate stress or disappointment, though your impact may be inconsistent across situations.
Self-Emotion RegulationSER
Measures how well you manage and modulate your own emotions, impulses, and emotional balance in challenging situations.
example score54/100
54/100Developingexample score
0 – 40Needs strengthening
41 – 70Developing
71 – 100Strong
A score of 54 falls in the Developing range, suggesting generally workable self-regulation with some inconsistency under pressure and room to build steadier emotional control.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Coaches and therapists
41%OF USERS
They use it as a quick check-in to understand how a client handles emotions across everyday situations and what to work on next.
Managers and team leads
34%OF USERS
They take it (often with colleague feedback) to see how their reactions under stress affect decisions, communication, and team climate.
Self-improvement seekers
25%OF USERS
They want a clear snapshot of how well they stay balanced during conflict, setbacks, and pressure, and where to strengthen coping skills.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Regulating Other People's EmotionsROPE
You?
Average73.8
Typical rangeTypical56.1 – 91.6
Possible0 – 100
Regulating Your Own EmotionsRYOE
You?
Average63.5
Typical rangeTypical50.8 – 76.2
Possible0 – 100
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

Each of the items below describes a social situation in which you might find yourself. After each description, you will be asked to indicate the emotional response (or responses) you would be most likely to experience. In some cases, only one emotional response is likely; in others, more than one may apply. Select the response(s) you believe would be most likely in that situation (rather than those that are merely theoretically possible). For each item, you may select between one and four responses.
    • Physical exercise.
    • Doing more work.
    • Meditation.
    • Distraction by doing an enjoyable activity.
    • Yell at the person to vent your anger.
    • Ask the person for forgiveness.
    • Try to understand why the person said those words.
    • Make a list of this person's good qualities.
    • Spend some time alone to reflect.
    • Go to a party with friends.
    • Have a couple of cocktails.
    • Tell your best friend about it.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Emotion Regulation (Situations) Test - Description and methodology of the test

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People may choose this assessment when they want to examine how they respond to pressure, conflict, disappointment, and everyday strain, especially when deciding what might ease distress or improve a difficult interaction. The Emotion Regulation (Situations) Test presents situations involving personal and interpersonal emotions, allowing a narrower comparison between self-regulation and regulation of others' emotions. This emotion regulation questionnaire uses situational choices to support self-observation and examine preferred responses.

What This Assessment Explores

The scenarios cover deadline tension, anger, sadness, shame, jealousy, fatigue, conflict, and positive mood. Other items ask how you would support a distressed friend, partner, child, employee, or colleague. They examine responses that may reduce distress, restore balance, repair relationships, or improve another person's mood.

The profile reports two dimensions:

  • Regulation of Others' Emotions runs from 0-100 and reflects your ability to comfort, support, motivate, or help people manage stress, anxiety, or disappointment. Bands are Limited (0-40), Developing (41-70), and Strong (71-100).
  • Self-Emotion Regulation runs from 0-100 and reflects managing feelings, controlling impulses, maintaining balance, pursuing goals, and acting by personal values under pressure. Bands are Needs strengthening (0-40), Developing (41-70), and Strong (71-100).

This emotion regulation assessment can show whether your choices lean toward self-management, interpersonal support, or both, while leaving room for context and individual differences.

Methodology and Scientific Basis

Each item presents a social or emotional situation with four possible responses. You choose the option you consider most effective, so the questionnaire examines beliefs about useful strategies rather than performance during a live emotional event. The scenarios move between self-management and influencing someone else.

The scoring summarizes these choices as a two-part profile; you do not calculate points. Read the result as a tendency suggested by your answers. The result is a profile of preferred emotion regulation strategies, highlighting preferences for planning, perspective-taking, apology, support, or calm communication.

The closest conceptual reference is Emotion Regulation (Situations) (Davis, 2005). The questionnaire is conceptually consistent with that work, but it is not a direct reproduction or validated adaptation. Gross's 1998 review and Gross and Thompson's 2007 chapter supply the broader framework for understanding regulation as shaping emotional experience, expression, and behavior in relation to goals and context.

This online self-report questionnaire has no stated norms. Answers may reflect current mood, self-awareness, social desirability, and the gap between recognizing an effective response and using it under emotional pressure.

Author: James J. Gross
Literature:
  • Davis, Mark H. Test Your EQ: Find Out How Emotionally Intelligent You Really Are. New York: New American Library, 2005.
  • Gross, James J., and Ross A. Thompson. Emotion Regulation: Conceptual Foundations. In Handbook of Emotion Regulation, edited by James J. Gross, 3-24. New York: Guilford Press, 2007.
  • Gross, James J. The Emerging Field of Emotion Regulation: An Integrative Review. Review of General Psychology, 2(3), 271-299, 1998. 10.1037/1089-2680.2.3.271

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