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Am I a Stalker Quiz

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Understand your patterns around contact, tracking, and boundaries in about 10 minutes. Free and no sign-up, with 15 quick items that support safer choices and respect for distance.
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July 22, 2026
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How the Scales are Structured

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7/15
Monitoring and Information Access (MaIA)
This scale reflects self-reported non-consensual monitoring or accessing information about another person (e.g., tracking, checking, or searching for updates) despite boundaries.
No monitoring endorsed
Boundary concern
Action warranted
0: No monitoring endorsed | 12: Boundary concern | 315: Action warranted
A score of 7 falls in the Action warranted range, indicating multiple monitoring or information-access behaviors that may conflict with consent or stated boundaries.
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9/15
Physical Pursuit and Coercive Escalation (PPaCE)
Measures in-person pursuit and escalation behaviors such as showing up uninvited, following, or using coercion after boundaries are set.
No items endorsed
Boundary concern present
Immediate action warranted
0: No items endorsed | 12: Boundary concern present | 315: Immediate action warranted
A score of 9 falls in the Immediate action warranted range, indicating multiple or more intense physical pursuit/coercive escalation behaviors were reported and boundaries may not be being respected.
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4/15
Unwanted Contact and Boundary Response (UCaBR)
This scale summarizes reported unwanted contact behaviors and how you responded to another person’s boundaries or requests for distance.
No concerns reported
Boundary concern
Action warranted
0: No concerns reported | 12: Boundary concern | 315: Action warranted
A score of 4 falls in the “Action warranted” range, indicating you reported repeated or unwanted contact patterns where stopping direct and indirect contact is indicated regardless of intent.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Anxious ex-partners
41%OF USERS
People after a breakup who keep checking, messaging, or showing up and want to know if they’ve crossed a line despite feeling hurt or worried.
Boundary-blind admirers
34%OF USERS
People with a crush or fixation who repeatedly reach out, monitor someone’s life, or interpret mixed signals and want a reality check on consent and boundaries.
Friends and family observers
25%OF USERS
People concerned about someone else’s persistent behavior and looking for warning signs to guide a conversation or encourage safer choices.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Monitoring and Information Access (MaIA)
Monitoring and Information Access (MaIA)
Average
10.2
Normal range
8.112.3
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Physical Pursuit and Coercive Escalation (PPaCE)
Physical Pursuit and Coercive Escalation (PPaCE)
Average
9.6
Normal range
712.2
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Unwanted Contact and Boundary Response (UCaBR)
Unwanted Contact and Boundary Response (UCaBR)
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10.8
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8.413.2
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • I stopped, except for communication they explicitly permitted or a necessary formal process.
    • I sent one final non-threatening acknowledgment and then stopped.
    • I continued trying to explain, apologize, argue, or obtain closure despite the request.
    • I refused the boundary and continued contacting them persistently.
    • I did not recruit other people to carry messages around a boundary.
    • I asked one person to pass along one neutral practical message, then stopped.
    • I repeatedly asked others to persuade the person, relay emotional messages, or report their response.
    • I pressured, deceived, or threatened others into helping me make contact.
    • I did not ask others to investigate or report on them.
    • I asked one mutual contact once whether they were doing okay.
    • I repeatedly asked friends, relatives, or coworkers where they were or who they were with.
    • I used deception, pressure, or someone’s privileged access to obtain private information.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Am I a Stalker Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

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This free, no-sign-up safety self-check examines monitoring, repeated contact, physical pursuit, and responses to another person’s boundaries. This is not a diagnostic test: it cannot determine whether you are a “stalker,” diagnose any condition, assess danger with certainty, or establish a legal conclusion. Context and local laws matter. Answer from your actual behavior, even if your intentions felt caring. If someone has asked for distance, stop contacting, tracking, or approaching them. If anyone may be in immediate danger, contact local emergency services or an appropriate crisis resource.

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