Relationship Anxiety Quiz
Understand how relationship anxiety affects reassurance seeking, reading uncertainty, and communication in about 10 minutes. Free, no sign up, with 15 quick questions to pinpoint patterns and next steps for steadier connection.


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Anxiety-Driven Communication (AC)
Anxiety-Driven Communication (AC)
Average
5.5
Normal range
2.7 — 8.3
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15
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Reassurance and Certainty Seeking (RaCS)
Reassurance and Certainty Seeking (RaCS)
Average
6.3
Normal range
3.9 — 8.7
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15
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Threat Interpretation and Vigilance (TIaV)
Threat Interpretation and Vigilance (TIaV)
Average
3.8
Normal range
1.2 — 6.4
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- Send a series of messages to explain every concern before they can disengage.
- Suggest pausing and returning to the issue when both of us can participate.
- Send one clarifying message, though waiting for the later conversation feels difficult.
- Delete, rewrite, or alternate between affectionate and upset messages as my anxiety shifts.
- I would strongly want them to confirm that their feelings have not changed.
- I would appreciate a little confirmation, though I could tolerate waiting for context.
- I would probably look for several signs that the connection was still secure.
- I would not need immediate confirmation unless the quieter behavior continued.
- I keep asking similar questions because each answer helps only briefly.
- I acknowledge the lingering feeling and give myself time before reopening the conversation.
- I accept the reassurance but may check in once more after I have reflected.
- I become cooler or less responsive so I can see whether they try to restore closeness.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Relationship Anxiety Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Explore how relationship anxiety may shape your need for reassurance, interpretation of uncertain moments, and communication when you feel unsettled. This free, no-sign-up quiz reflects patterns associated with more or less secure relating, but it cannot determine your attachment style or diagnose a mental health condition. Real inconsistency, broken trust, or unsafe behavior can also cause understandable concern. If anxiety is persistent, overwhelming, or affecting daily life, consider speaking with a qualified therapist or trusted support person.
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