How Much Do I Love Him Quiz
Understand your feelings in 10 minutes by exploring emotional connection, caring regard, and chosen investment. Free and no sign-up, it offers clear signals to guide boundaries and next steps.


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Caring Regard (CR)
Caring Regard (CR)
Average
4.9
Normal range
2.2 — 7.7
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Chosen Investment (CI)
Chosen Investment (CI)
Average
10.4
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7.9 — 12.9
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15
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Emotional Connection (EC)
Emotional Connection (EC)
Average
8.2
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5.8 — 10.5
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I feel genuinely pleased because I know what the achievement means to him.
- I am supportive, especially once he explains why it matters so much.
- I acknowledge it, but it does not stir much emotion in me.
- I am happy for him, though my interest depends somewhat on whether I relate to the achievement.
- Try a more deliberate conversation or new approach because the connection is worth working on.
- Make one more attempt, while also considering whether the pattern signals a poor fit.
- Take the repetition as a sign that stepping back may be the clearest choice.
- Wait to see whether the issue resolves naturally before investing more energy.
- I might tell him later if it comes up naturally.
- He is usually among the first people I want to tell.
- I mainly want to tell him when the news affects our connection.
- I rarely feel a particular urge to tell him.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
How Much Do I Love Him Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Think of one specific person and answer from your current reality—not the relationship you hope to have. This free, no-sign-up quiz explores three parts of loving someone: emotional connection, caring regard, and chosen investment. Your results are reflective signals, not proof of love or a verdict on compatibility, reciprocity, or relationship health. Strong feelings can coexist with unmet needs, and protecting your boundaries does not make your feelings less real.
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