Is My Relationship One Sided Quiz
Understand whether you are carrying more of the relationship in about 10 minutes. Get a free 15 question snapshot of initiation, emotional support, and shared effort with clear, separate scores.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Emotional Reciprocity (ER)
Emotional Reciprocity (ER)
Average
10.3
Normal range
8.5 — 12.1
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15
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Initiative and Availability (IaA)
Initiative and Availability (IaA)
Average
4.4
Normal range
2.1 — 6.7
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0
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15
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Shared Investment and Responsibility (SIaR)
Shared Investment and Responsibility (SIaR)
Average
4.2
Normal range
1.8 — 6.5
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- My partner tries to understand what I need, just as I try to do for them.
- They care but may need a clear request before offering much support.
- I often receive limited attention even after explaining what would help.
- There is little room for my distress, while I am still expected to hold theirs.
- We divide tasks in a way we both regard as workable, even if the split is not identical.
- I handle somewhat more, while my partner reliably completes agreed responsibilities.
- I carry most of the planning and must often remind my partner about their part.
- I am expected to manage nearly everything, including problems caused by their lack of follow-through.
- My partner adjusts expectations and takes on more where possible, as I would for them.
- They are understanding, although I still coordinate most of the changes.
- I remain responsible for keeping things running despite clearly communicating my limits.
- My limits are disregarded, and I face pressure or consequences for not continuing my usual effort.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Is My Relationship One Sided Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Does it feel as though you are carrying more of your relationship than your partner? This free, no-sign-up quiz helps you reflect on who initiates connection, how emotional care is exchanged, and whether responsibilities and compromises are shared. Review each dimension separately; the scores are reflective summaries, not proof of your partner’s intentions or a clinical assessment. If the relationship involves fear, threats, coercion, or harm, seek support from someone you trust or an appropriate local service.
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