Top or Bottom Quiz
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Example Questions From the Test
- Strongly disagree
- Disagree
- Not sure
- Agree
- Strongly disagree
- Disagree
- Not sure
- Agree
- Strongly disagree
- Disagree
- Not sure
- Agree
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This respectful, non-judgmental quiz explores preferences related to initiative, control, giving and receiving, communication, and comfort with switching roles in dating or sexual dynamics. The Top or Bottom Quiz includes 68 items and typically takes about 10 minutes to complete. Results describe a tendency toward top, bottom, or vers patterns, along with reflection prompts and tips for talking about boundaries and consent.
Why Take a Top or Bottom Quiz
Preferences around initiating versus receiving, or leading versus following, are genuinely personal and can vary quite a bit from person to person, situation to situation, and even partner to partner. A structured top or bottom test gives some real language to these preferences, rather than relying on assumptions or labels that don't quite fit your actual experience.
This top or bottom quiz is especially useful because it looks at several related but distinct dimensions — how much you tend to initiate versus receive, how comfortable you are switching roles depending on the situation, and how confidently you can discuss desires, limits, and consent with a partner. Seeing these as separate patterns, rather than one blurred label, gives a more accurate and genuinely useful picture.
This assessment is especially useful for people newer to a relationship or dynamic who want language to describe their preferences to a partner, and for anyone wanting a structured way to reflect on their comfort with communicating about boundaries and consent.
What the Assessment Measures
The quiz explores your preferences across three core dimensions:
- Initiative and role tendency — your overall tendency toward a more initiating or leading ("top") versus more receiving or following ("bottom") role in dating or sexual dynamics
- Comfort switching roles — how comfortable and willing you are to switch roles between leading and receiving across different situations or partners
- Consent and communication confidence — how comfortable and confident you feel discussing desires, consent, and limits before and during intimacy
Results describe a tendency toward top, bottom, or vers (versatile) patterns based on your combined responses, along with reflection prompts for further self-understanding.
Who This Assessment Is For
This Top or Bottom Quiz is appropriate for anyone curious about their preferences related to initiative, control, and role dynamics in dating or sexual relationships. It's especially useful for people wanting language to describe their preferences to a partner, and for anyone wanting a structured way to reflect on their comfort discussing boundaries and consent.
How to Use This Assessment
Results are intended for self-reflection and discussion, not clinical diagnosis. Preferences can vary by partner, context, and time, so select the option that best matches typical preferences rather than an ideal or expected response. Use results as a starting point to state interests, limits, and preferred communication style with a partner — consent should always be discussed and confirmed directly, regardless of any quiz result.