Am I in Love Quiz

Clarify whether you are feeling love, a crush, or attachment in about 10 minutes. Get a clear, nonjudgmental read on closeness, trust, commitment, and next steps.
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March 25, 2026
March 25, 2026
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16/20
Attachment vs. Love Balance (AvLB)
Measures whether your feelings lean more toward attachment needs (reassurance, dependency, fear of loss) versus love-based motives (care, respect, choice, mutual growth).
Love-leaning
Mixed
Attachment-leaning
06Love-leaning713Mixed1420Attachment-leaning
A score of 16 falls in the Attachment-leaning range, suggesting your feelings are currently driven more by reassurance-seeking or fear of losing the person than by steady, choice-based closeness.
example score
9/NaN
Commitment Readiness (CR)
Measures how ready you feel to invest in and sustain a stable, future-oriented romantic relationship.
Hesitant
Developing
Ready
0NaNHesitant8NaNDeveloping15NaNReady
A score of 9 suggests you’re somewhat open to commitment but may still be clarifying what you want and how much reliability, exclusivity, and long-term planning you’re prepared to offer right now.
example score
10/NaN
Romantic Love Intensity (RLI)
Measures how strong and consistent your feelings are across common indicators of romantic love such as warmth, admiration, emotional closeness, longing, and desire for a shared bond.
Low
Moderate
High
0NaNLow11NaNModerate21NaNHigh
A score of 10 falls in the Low range, suggesting your current feelings show fewer or less consistent signs of romantic love and may feel more mixed or uncertain.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

New relationship deciders
41%OF USERS
People dating someone new who want to tell if the feelings are real love or just early excitement.
Crush vs. love questioners
34%OF USERS
People with a strong crush who keep thinking about the person and want clarity on whether it’s love, infatuation, or attachment.
On-and-off relationship thinkers
25%OF USERS
People in a complicated or long-distance situation who are weighing trust, commitment, and how conflict affects their bond.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Attachment vs. Love Balance (AvLB)
Average
12.2
Normal range
915.3
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Commitment Readiness (CR)
Average
10.5
Normal range
7.913
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20
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Romantic Love Intensity (RLI)
Average
12.4
Normal range
7.117.8
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max.
30
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Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It assesses common indicators linked to romantic love, including emotional closeness, trust, commitment, longing, and responses to conflict or distance. Results are intended for self-reflection and do not provide a diagnosis.
How long does it take to complete?
Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 81 questions.
How should responses be selected?
Answer based on typical thoughts and behaviors rather than a single recent event. If uncertain, select the option that best fits most of the time.
How should results be interpreted?
Results provide a simple summary that may resemble love, a crush, or attachment based on response patterns. Use the interpretation prompts to identify needs, boundaries, and possible next steps.
What if the results cause distress or raise safety concerns?
If responses point to severe distress, coercion, or fear, consider seeking support from a qualified mental health professional or a trusted local resource. If there is immediate danger, contact emergency services.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Am I in Love Quiz

Am I in Love Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Wondering whether what you feel is love, a crush, or just attachment? This “Am I in Love?” quiz helps you reflect on common signs of romantic love—emotional closeness, trust, commitment, longing, and how you handle conflict and distance. Answer quick questions about your thoughts, behaviors, and relationship needs to get a clear, non-judgmental result with a simple interpretation and next-step prompts. For insight and self-reflection only—not a diagnosis.

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