Intimacy Quiz for Couples

See how close and connected you feel as a couple in about 10 minutes. Get a quick strengths and growth snapshot with prompts and small next steps to try together.
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March 25, 2026
March 25, 2026
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20/NaN
Affection & Physical Closeness (A&PC)
Measures the consistency of warmth, affection, and comfortable physical closeness you feel as a couple.
Distant or mismatched
Mixed or inconsistent
Warm and connected
0NaNDistant or mismatched14NaNMixed or inconsistent28NaNWarm and connected
A score of 20 suggests affection and physical closeness feel present at times but inconsistent, with some unmet needs or barriers worth discussing together.
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25/40
Communication & Repair (C&R)
Measures everyday communication quality and how effectively you repair and reconnect after disagreements.
Strained
Mixed
Constructive
019Strained2030Mixed3140Constructive
A score of 25 falls in the Mixed range, suggesting you have some constructive communication and repair skills but may still experience recurring misunderstandings or slower reconnection after conflict.
example score
9/40
Emotional & Trust Intimacy (E&TI)
This scale reflects how emotionally safe, accepted, and trusting you feel with each other, including openness, reliability, and vulnerability.
Guarded / Uncertain
Building Security
Secure & Trusting
013Guarded / Uncertain1426Building Security2740Secure & Trusting
A score of 9 suggests emotional and trust intimacy may feel more guarded right now, with potential unmet needs for reassurance, reliability, or safe openness.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Long-term partners checking in
41%OF USERS
Couples in established relationships who want a clearer sense of what’s working and what needs attention in everyday closeness, trust, and communication.
Couples in a rough patch
34%OF USERS
Partners feeling disconnected, stuck in recurring fights, or unsure how to repair after conflict who want a gentle way to start an honest conversation.
Newly committed couples
25%OF USERS
People early in a serious relationship who want to align expectations around emotional safety, affection, boundaries, and how they handle disagreements.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Affection & Physical Closeness (A&PC)
Average
10.1
Normal range
5.215
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Communication & Repair (C&R)
Average
16.2
Normal range
10.721.7
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40
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Emotional & Trust Intimacy (E&TI)
Average
10.8
Normal range
5.815.8
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40
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Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It examines perceived closeness and connection across emotional safety, communication, affection, trust, and conflict repair. It may also include physical closeness if that section is selected.
How long does it take to complete?
Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 67 questions.
How should responses be selected?
Select the option that best matches typical patterns over the past few months. Use the first accurate choice and avoid overthinking individual items.
How should results be interpreted?
Results provide a snapshot of strengths and potential growth areas rather than a clinical diagnosis. They are intended to support reflection, discussion, and small next-step changes.
What if partners answer differently?
Differences are common and may reflect separate experiences or expectations. Use the provided prompts to compare results and identify one or two topics for focused discussion.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Intimacy Quiz for Couples - Symptoms and Signs

Explore how close and connected you feel as a couple across key areas of intimacy—emotional safety, communication, affection, trust, conflict repair, and (if you choose) physical closeness. This quiz is a reflective check-in, not a diagnosis or a scorecard. You’ll answer practical, real-life questions and get a results snapshot showing strengths and potential growth zones, plus conversation prompts and small next-step ideas you can try together.

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