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Am I Being Cheated On Quiz

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With 15 questions and about 10 minutes, the Am I Being Cheated On Quiz helps you reflect on changes in availability, communication, boundaries, and trust. Your result highlights patterns worth discussing, supports clearer self-reflection, and can help you identify specific concerns or relationship needs without treating uncertainty as proof.
Questions: 1510 minutes
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Scale Explorer

How the Scales are Structured

Availability and Connection ChangesAaCC
Measures recent changes in your partner’s availability and your sense of connection over the past three months (or since concerns began).
example score4/15
4/15Few or isolated changesexample score
0 – 5Few or isolated changes
6 – 10Mixed changes
11 – 15Strong change pattern
A score of 4 suggests few or isolated changes in availability and connection, with overall stability or changes that may have an understandable context.
Consistency and OpennessCaO
Measures how consistent and open your partner’s communication and shared information have felt over the relevant time period.
example score7/15
7/15Unsettledexample score
0 – 5Generally coherent
6 – 10Unsettled
11 – 15Persistent inconsistency
A score of 7 falls in the Unsettled range, suggesting partial answers, defensiveness, or inconsistencies that may be making trust harder and are best addressed with specific examples and needs.
Exclusivity Boundaries and RepairEBaR
Assesses how consistently exclusivity boundaries are defined, respected, and repaired when strained in your relationship.
example score12/15
12/15Serious boundary concernexample score
0 – 5Few boundary concerns
6 – 10Boundary strain
11 – 15Serious boundary concern
A score of 12 falls in the Serious boundary concern range, suggesting repeated or concealed behavior may be inconsistent with your agreements and may warrant clarifying boundaries and repair needs with support if desired.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Noticing new distance
41%OF USERS
They sense a recent shift in closeness, routines, or affection and want a structured way to sort signals from normal stress.
Trust shaken by inconsistencies
34%OF USERS
They’ve spotted gaps in stories, unusual privacy, or unexplained time away and want to clarify what feels off before confronting it.
After a triggering event
25%OF USERS
A specific incident—like flirtatious messages, a boundary break, or a past betrayal resurfacing—has made them seek guidance on next steps.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Availability and Connection ChangesAaCC
You?
Average5.9
Typical rangeTypical3.5 – 8.2
Possible0 – 15
Consistency and OpennessCaO
You?
Average9.6
Typical rangeTypical7 – 12.3
Possible0 – 15
Exclusivity Boundaries and RepairEBaR
You?
Average10.3
Typical rangeTypical7.6 – 13
Possible0 – 15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • There has been a modest change that my partner explained and applies consistently.
    • There was a sudden pattern of concealment paired with contradictory explanations or denial of observable changes.
    • There has been a marked change, and the explanation remains incomplete or difficult to discuss.
    • Their boundaries are broadly stable, whether relatively private or open.
    • I receive a partial answer, and it takes repeated questions to understand the basics.
    • I receive a straightforward answer, even if the situation itself is inconvenient.
    • The question is met with attack, blame, or pressure to stop asking, without addressing it.
    • I receive an answer, though my partner seems tense or briefly defensive.
    • The interaction appears consistent with our agreements and has not been concealed.
    • Some behavior feels ambiguous, but it was disclosed and can be discussed.
    • The interaction repeatedly approaches or crosses a stated boundary and is minimized afterward.
    • I have found concealed romantic or sexual contact that violates our explicit agreement.
These are 3 of the 15 real questions — the rest appear in the test. No sign-up needed to start.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Am I Being Cheated On Quiz - Description and methodology of the test

People who feel unsettled by changes in a relationship can use the Am I Being Cheated On Quiz to organize observations before raising a difficult subject. It is intended for someone evaluating trust, communication, and boundaries with a partner. As a quiz about how to know if you're being cheated on, it helps someone use the results to prepare a structured conversation about concrete examples rather than treating suspicion as proof.

What This Assessment Explores

The questions focus on observable relationship situations rather than hidden facts: altered privacy, changed contact or shared time, inconsistent explanations, exclusion, outside interactions, and attempts to repair trust. It organizes vague unease into specific areas for reflection, making it useful as a relationship trust quiz without inferring that infidelity occurred or treating one clue as proof.

The three displayed dimensions describe the result:

  • Availability and Connection Changes (0-15) shows whether contact and closeness remain stable: Few or isolated changes (0-5), Mixed changes (6-10), or Strong change pattern (11-15).
  • Consistency and Openness (0-15) reflects how coherent explanations feel: Generally coherent (0-5), Unsettled (6-10), or Persistent inconsistency (11-15).
  • Exclusivity Boundaries and Repair (0-15) reflects shared agreements and repair: Few boundary concerns (0-5), Boundary strain (6-10), or Serious boundary concern (11-15).

Methodology and Evidence Base

Each item describes a relationship situation and offers response options that distinguish stable, explained patterns from ambiguity, contradiction, concealment, boundary violations, or unsafe reactions. Its value lies in comparing related situations across communication, privacy, availability, inclusion, exclusivity, and repair, while distinguishing ordinary privacy from unexplained trust-affecting changes rather than ranking a single dramatic event.

The Weigel and Shrout (2025) study on suspicion-confirmation and avoidance strategies is the closest conceptual comparison. Hanson Sobraske, Gaulin, and Boster (2014) contribute research on sensitivity to possible rival-related cues, while Pfeiffer and Wong (1989) and Thompson and O'Sullivan (2016) support multidimensional jealousy and differing judgments about infidelity. This questionnaire is conceptually consistent with those works, not an adaptation of them.

Scoring produces three separate descriptive pattern summaries, so this trust and infidelity quiz guides interpretation through the displayed bands; it does not calculate the probability that cheating occurred. As an online self-report questionnaire, it depends on memory, context, and candid answers, with responses organized around plans, contact, explanations, boundaries, and repair. Concealed events cannot be verified by a score, so concrete examples and the relationship's safety context still matter.

Literature:
  • Weigel, Daniel J., & Shrout, M. Rosie. (2025). Are You Cheating on Me? Identifying Factors Contributing to the Use of Suspicion Confirmation and Avoidance Strategies. Western Journal of Communication, 89(1), 108-131. 10.1080/10570314.2024.2324382
  • Hanson Sobraske, Katherine N., Gaulin, Steven J. C., & Boster, James S. (2014). Functional Variation in Sensitivity to Cues that a Partner is Cheating with a Rival. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43(7), 1267-1279. 10.1007/s10508-014-0283-5
  • Pfeiffer, Susan M., & Wong, Paul T. P. (1989). Multidimensional Jealousy. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 6(2), 181-196. 10.1177/026540758900600203
  • Thompson, Ashley E., & O'Sullivan, Lucia F. (2016). Drawing the Line: The Development of a Comprehensive Assessment of Infidelity Judgments. Journal of Sex Research, 53(8), 910-926. 10.1080/00224499.2015.1062840

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