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Fear of Compassion Scale Test

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With 31 questions and a completion time of about six minutes, the Fear of Compassion Scale Test explores discomfort with giving compassion to others, receiving compassion from others, and showing compassion toward oneself. Results can clarify how kindness, support, vulnerability, and self-acceptance feel across these three directions, offering a useful starting point for personal reflection.
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How the Scales are Structured

Fear of Compassion for OthersFoCfO
Measures discomfort or resistance when expressing compassion, care, or support toward other people.
example score3/5
3/5Moderate discomfortexample score
1 – 1.6Low discomfort
1.7 – 3.7Moderate discomfort
3.8 – 5High discomfort
A score of 3 falls in the Moderate discomfort range, suggesting you may sometimes hesitate or feel uneasy about offering help or emotional support to others.
Fear of Compassion From OthersFoCFO
Measures how uneasy or resistant a person feels when receiving compassion, care, or support from others.
example score3/5
3/5Some discomfortexample score
1 – 1.6Comfortable receiving support
1.7 – 3.7Some discomfort
3.8 – 5Strong discomfort
A score of 3 falls in the “Some discomfort” range, suggesting occasional unease or hesitation when others offer kindness or help.
Fear of Self-CompassionFoSC
Measures how much fear or discomfort a person feels when offering themselves kindness, understanding, and support.
example score3/5
3/5Moderate resistanceexample score
1 – 1.6Low resistance
1.6 – 3.9Moderate resistance
3.9 – 5High resistance
A score of 3 suggests a moderate level of discomfort with self-compassion, indicating that being kind to yourself may feel somewhat challenging at times.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Harsh Self-Critics
41%OF USERS
People who often judge themselves harshly and struggle to be gentle or forgiving toward their own mistakes.
Support-Avoiders
34%OF USERS
People who feel uncomfortable receiving care, help, or praise and tend to push others away when they offer support.
Caring but Emotionally Guarded
25%OF USERS
People who want to be kind and empathetic but feel blocked, numb, or anxious when showing warmth toward others.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Fear of Compassion for OthersFoCfO
You?
Average2.9
Typical rangeTypical2.2 – 3.6
Possible1 – 5
Fear of Others' CompassionFoOC
You?
Average2
Typical rangeTypical1.5 – 2.5
Possible1 – 5
Fear of self-compassionFos
You?
Average3.8
Typical rangeTypical3.1 – 4.4
Possible1 – 5
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

People hold different views about compassion and kindness. Some believe it is important to show compassion and kindness in all situations and contexts, whereas others believe it is necessary to be more cautious and to be concerned that these may be expressed too often toward oneself and others. We are interested in your thoughts and beliefs about kindness and compassion. Please use the response scale provided to indicate the extent to which you agree with each statement.
    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Neither agree nor disagree
    • Agree
    • Strongly agree
    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Neither agree nor disagree
    • Agree
    • Strongly agree
    • Strongly disagree
    • Disagree
    • Neither agree nor disagree
    • Agree
    • Strongly agree
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Fear of Compassion Scale Test - Description and methodology of the test

cbt
self-acceptance
self-compassion

People who feel uneasy about kindness, support, forgiveness, or self-acceptance can use the Fear of Compassion Scale Test to examine situations in which compassion feels threatening rather than soothing. Anyone curious about giving care, receiving warmth, or treating themselves less harshly may find the questions relevant to relationships and moments of vulnerability. As a fear of compassion questionnaire, it organizes those situations by direction.

What This Assessment Explores

They explore exploitation, vulnerability, dependence, punishment, mistrust, emotional distance, and concern that self-kindness weakens standards. Dimensions distinguish discomfort with compassion for others, from others, and toward oneself; the self-compassion scale test measures resistance to self-support and acceptance.

The three displayed dimensions are:

  • Fear of Compassion for Others (1-5) indicates discomfort when expressing care; Low discomfort (1-1.6), Moderate discomfort (1.7-3.7), and High discomfort (3.8-5) are the displayed bands.
  • Fear of Compassion From Others (1-5) indicates difficulty accepting care; Comfortable receiving support (1-1.6), Some discomfort (1.7-3.7), and Strong discomfort (3.8-5) are the displayed bands.
  • Fear of Self-Compassion (1-5) indicates resistance to self-support and acceptance; Low resistance (1-1.6), Moderate resistance (1.6-3.9), and High resistance (3.9-5) are the displayed bands.

Methodology and Scientific Basis

The presented items use five agreement options, from Strongly disagree to Strongly agree, with a neutral midpoint. The items address compassion given to others, received from others, and directed toward the self. Responses produce three separate scale results; higher displayed scores indicate greater discomfort or resistance, while the named bands describe the result rather than functioning as clinical cutoffs.

The conceptual reference is the Fears of Compassion Scales (Gilbert et al., 2011), the published self-report measures that most closely match these themes. This questionnaire is conceptually consistent with that work, not presented as a direct adaptation or newly validated form. Kirby et al. (2019) linked fear-of-compassion scores with psychological functioning, while Asano et al. (2017) showed that wording and cultural context matter in an adapted version.

The fear of compassion results are best read as a self-report profile. Present mood, relationships, self-awareness, and the wish to appear strong can shape answers. The online version supplies no norms or reliability estimates, so compare the three results with one another and with current circumstances rather than treating a band as a standalone conclusion.

Author: Paul Gilbert
Literature:
  • Gilbert, P., McEwan, K., Matos, M., & Rivis, A. (2011). Fears of compassion: Development of three self-report measures. Psychology and Psychotherapy: Theory, Research and Practice, 84(3), 239-255. 10.1348/147608310X526511
  • Kirby, J. N., Day, J., & Sagar, V. (2019). The 'Flow' of compassion: A meta-analysis of the fears of compassion scales and psychological functioning. Clinical Psychology Review, 70, 26-39. 10.1016/j.cpr.2019.03.001
  • Asano, K., Tsuchiya, M., Ishimura, I., Lin, S., Matsumoto, Y., Miyata, H., Kotera, Y., Shimizu, E., & Gilbert, P. (2017). The development of fears of compassion scale Japanese version. PLOS ONE, 12(10), e0185574. 10.1371/journal.pone.0185574

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