Is It Love or Obsession Quiz
Understand whether your feelings reflect healthy love or fixation in about 10 minutes. Free, private, 15 questions that offer clear takeaways and encourage safer boundaries if things feel unsafe.
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BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Boundary and Autonomy Strain (BaAS)
Average
4
Normal range
1.9 — 6
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15
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Fixation and Emotional Dependence (FaED)
Average
8.7
Normal range
6.2 — 11.2
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0
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15
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Mutual Care and Reality (MCaR)
Average
6.2
Normal range
4.3 — 8.1
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0
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15
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this quiz measure?
It screens for patterns that may reflect grounded, mutual affection versus fixation, idealization, and boundary strain. Results are prompts for reflection, not proof of love or a diagnosis.
How long does it take and how many items are included?
Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 15 questions.
How should items be answered?
Answer based on current behavior and feelings, not isolated events. Select the option that best matches typical patterns in the relationship.
How should results be interpreted?
Scores are unvalidated and may not reflect clinical thresholds. Consider the full context, including reciprocity, respect for boundaries, and day-to-day functioning.
What if the relationship involves threats, coercion, stalking, or ignored boundaries?
Treat safety concerns as urgent regardless of the score. Seek support from a trusted person or a relevant local service.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Is It Love or Obsession Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Strong feelings can combine genuine care, idealization, longing, and fear of losing the connection. This free, no-sign-up quiz explores whether your current pattern leans more toward grounded, mutual affection or fixation and boundary strain. It cannot prove that you are in love or diagnose obsession; its scores are unvalidated prompts for reflection. If the relationship involves fear, threats, coercion, stalking, unwanted monitoring, or ignored boundaries, prioritize safety and contact a trusted person or relevant local support service, regardless of your results.
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