Does My Crush Hate Me Quiz
Understand what your crush’s distance may mean in 10 minutes. Get a clear read on effort, warmth, and avoidance cues to reduce overthinking and support safer next steps.


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Direct Distance Signals (DDS)
Direct Distance Signals (DDS)
Average
10.9
Normal range
8.9 — 12.8
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15
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Engagement and Reciprocity (EaR)
Engagement and Reciprocity (EaR)
Average
8
Normal range
5.5 — 10.5
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0
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15
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Warmth and Comfort (WaC)
Warmth and Comfort (WaC)
Average
7.5
Normal range
5.1 — 9.9
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0
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- They are willing to clarify it and move forward.
- They need some time, then interact normally again.
- They remain distant and avoid discussing what happened.
- They repeatedly use the incident to insult me or justify cutting off contact.
- They actively include me or check whether the plan works for me.
- They appear comfortable with my inclusion but do not take the lead.
- They seem hesitant once my participation is mentioned.
- They explicitly try to exclude me without offering a neutral reason.
- They often restart it or send me something relevant.
- Either of us might restart it, depending on the week.
- I usually restart it, but they respond with some interest.
- Nothing resumes unless I make repeated attempts.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Does My Crush Hate Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Does your crush seem distant, or is uncertainty making every interaction feel negative? This free, no-sign-up quiz reviews observable patterns in your talking stage: mutual effort, warmth and comfort, and direct distance signals. It cannot read your crush’s mind or prove that they hate you; shyness, stress, communication style, and lack of romantic interest can look similar. Use the results as a reflection aid, respect stated boundaries, and step back or seek trusted support if any interaction feels intimidating or unsafe.
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