Am I Ready for Marriage Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1Which statement best describes why marriage appeals to you?
  • It seems like the expected next step, even though I have not defined what it means to me.
  • I value some parts of marriage but am still separating my own wishes from outside expectations.
  • I have personal reasons for wanting it, though I am still working through a few assumptions.
  • I can explain why I choose marriage and how that choice fits my values and relationship.
• 2Where do you and your partner stand on children or other major caregiving responsibilities?
  • We have clearly compared our wishes, limits, timing, and what we would do if circumstances changed.
  • We appear to agree, but we have not explored the practical implications in depth.
  • We have discussed both preferences and some real-life responsibilities, with a few issues still open.
  • We have relied mostly on assumptions about what the other person wants.
• 3How thoroughly have you discussed money as a married couple?
  • We have compared income, debts, spending patterns, goals, and how financial decisions could be made.
  • We know the broad outlines and have discussed some priorities, but not all practical details.
  • We have talked about general attitudes toward money without sharing a complete picture.
  • We mostly avoid specifics because finances feel personal or potentially divisive.