Is My Friend a Narcissist Quiz
Get a clearer read on friendship patterns like entitlement, blame, and manipulation in about 10 minutes. Free and no sign-up, it offers an easy self-check and clear next-step guidance if you feel unsafe.
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Accountability and Conflict Tactics (AaCT)
Accountability and Conflict Tactics (AaCT)
Average
5.7
Normal range
3.6 — 7.9
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15
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Empathy and Reciprocity (EaR)
Empathy and Reciprocity (EaR)
Average
4.4
Normal range
2 — 6.8
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15
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Entitlement and Boundary Pressure (EaBP)
Entitlement and Boundary Pressure (EaBP)
Average
8.6
Normal range
6.5 — 10.7
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- They respect those relationships even when they do not personally connect with everyone.
- They make occasional jealous comments but do not try to control my contact.
- They repeatedly undermine others, create loyalty tests, or pressure me to reduce contact.
- They use threats, coercion, monitoring, or deliberate lies to isolate me from support.
- They state what they need and return to the issue within a reasonable agreed period.
- They withdraw longer than expected but later reconnect without using silence as leverage.
- They repeatedly use prolonged silence, blocking, or disappearance to pressure me into giving in.
- They combine withdrawal with threats, stalking, property damage, or other intimidation.
- They listen, ask what I need, and respect whether I want support or space.
- They try to help briefly but become distracted or redirect the topic.
- They often make my distress about them, dismiss it, or withhold support to gain leverage.
- They mock my vulnerability or use what I reveal to exploit or harm me.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Is My Friend a Narcissist Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up self-check explores observable behaviors sometimes associated with narcissistic or harmful friendship patterns, including entitlement, limited reciprocity, blame, and manipulation. It cannot determine whether your friend has narcissistic personality disorder; only a qualified professional can assess that. Scores are unvalidated reflective summaries, not clinical or legal cutoffs. Harm can involve peers or adults. If you feel threatened or controlled, contact someone you trust or a relevant support service; seek urgent local help if danger is immediate.
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