Relationship Satisfaction Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1When you share a personally meaningful success or disappointment, what response do you typically experience?
  • I often leave feeling that the meaning of it did not really land.
  • My partner acknowledges it, but the response can feel more practical than emotionally engaged.
  • I usually feel supported, even if my partner does not fully understand at first.
  • I generally feel that my emotions are noticed, understood, and taken seriously.
• 2Suppose you need to make a shared decision and your preferences conflict. Which pattern is most familiar?
  • One preference usually prevails, leaving the other person dissatisfied or detached.
  • We split the difference, but the result often feels unsatisfying to both of us.
  • We usually reach a workable compromise, even if neither gets everything wanted.
  • We explore what matters beneath each preference and make a decision that feels genuinely shared.
• 3How satisfying is the balance between time together and room for individual interests?
  • The balance regularly leaves at least one of us feeling crowded, lonely, or disconnected.
  • We make room for both, but it often feels like an uncomfortable trade-off.
  • The balance usually works, with occasional periods of too much distance or too little space.
  • Togetherness and independence generally complement each other and support both of us.