Am I an Energy Vampire Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1In a lively group conversation, how do you usually find your way into the discussion?
  • I watch for openings and sometimes invite a quieter person in first.
  • I speak when I have a clear point, even if I occasionally overlap with someone.
  • I tend to take several turns or give longer explanations so my point is understood.
  • I often steer the discussion toward subjects where I have the most to contribute.
• 2A friend begins describing a difficult week. What most closely matches your usual response?
  • I stay with their story and ask what part has been hardest.
  • I mention a similar experience briefly, then bring the focus back to them.
  • We usually trade stories, although mine may take up as much time as theirs.
  • Their story often reminds me of something important that I end up discussing at length.
• 3During a disagreement, what usually receives most of your attention?
  • Understanding their point well enough to summarize it before responding.
  • Asking at least one clarifying question, then explaining my view.
  • Presenting the reasons behind my position as clearly as possible.
  • Repeating or expanding my point until I feel fully acknowledged.