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Relationship OCD Test

Relationship OCD Test: Do I Have ROCD? Symptoms - FreudlyRelationship OCD Test based on ROCD symptom criteria. Free screening with detailed analysis. Not diagnostic – consult mental health professional.en
Designed for people who experience persistent relationship doubts, the Relationship OCD Test takes about 10 minutes and includes 75 questions. Its result highlights compulsive reassurance-seeking, symptom frequency, and effects on daily life, offering a structured starting point for self-reflection and a clearer view of recurring relationship patterns.
Questions: 7510 minutes
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How the Scales are Structured

Compulsions & ReassuranceC&R
Measures how often you respond to relationship doubts with compulsions such as reassurance-seeking, mental checking, comparing, testing attraction, and repeated review.
example score7/20
7/20Moderateexample score
0 – 6Low
7 – 13Moderate
14 – 20High
A score of 7 falls in the Moderate range, suggesting you sometimes rely on reassurance-seeking or mental checking to reduce uncertainty about your relationship.
Relationship ImpactRI
Measures how much relationship-focused intrusive thoughts and related behaviors interfere with daily life and the relationship.
example score13/20
13/20Moderate impactexample score
0 – 6Low impact
7 – 13Moderate impact
14 – 20High impact
A score of 13 suggests a moderate level of interference, where these patterns are fairly frequent and may noticeably affect anxiety, decision-making, or intimacy at times.
ROCD Symptom FrequencyRSF
Measures how often ROCD-style experiences (e.g., intrusive doubts, mental checking, reassurance-seeking, avoidance) occur across situations.
example score8/30
8/30Low frequencyexample score
0 – 10Low frequency
11 – 20Moderate frequency
21 – 30High frequency
A score of 8 suggests these ROCD-style experiences are present at a low frequency overall.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Intrusive Relationship Doubters
41%OF USERS
People who get stuck in loops of “What if I don’t really love them?” or “What if they’re not right?” and feel anxiety that won’t settle even after reassurance.
Reassurance and Checking Seekers
34%OF USERS
People who repeatedly ask partners or friends for confirmation, compare feelings, review memories, or mentally test attraction to feel certain about the relationship.
Avoiding Commitment Decisions
25%OF USERS
People who delay moving forward (labels, moving in, engagement, intimacy) or pull back because doubts and fear of making the wrong choice feel overwhelming.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Compulsions & ReassuranceC&R
You?
Average5.7
Typical rangeTypical2.3 – 9.2
Possible0 – 20
Relationship ImpactRI
You?
Average12.1
Typical rangeTypical8.6 – 15.7
Possible0 – 20
ROCD Symptom FrequencyRSF
You?
Average21
Typical rangeTypical16.1 – 25.8
Possible0 – 30
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Often
    • Almost always
    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Often
    • Almost always
    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Often
    • Almost always
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Relationship OCD Test - Description and methodology of the test

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People who notice recurring doubts about love, attraction, compatibility, or commitment can use this questionnaire to organize experiences that otherwise feel confusing. The Relationship OCD Test is intended for self-reflection around intrusive relationship concerns and the habits used to obtain certainty. A ROCD test can help readers see whether these patterns are frequent, compulsive, and disruptive without deciding what their relationship should be.

What This Assessment Explores

These items examine a cycle in which relationship doubt prompts checking, comparison, reassurance-seeking, analysis, testing, or avoidance. They also address effects on closeness, intimacy, conflict, enjoyment, decisions, and trust in personal judgment.

For someone considering a relationship OCD symptoms test, the result distinguishes intrusive experiences, certainty-seeking responses, and disruption. It describes recurring patterns rather than judging whether a relationship is objectively right.

The displayed result has three dimensions:

  • Compulsions & Reassurance (0-20) measures efforts to reduce uncertainty through compulsions; Low 0-6, Moderate 7-13, High 14-20.
  • Relationship Impact (0-20) measures disruption and distress in daily life and the relationship; Low impact 0-6, Moderate impact 7-13, High impact 14-20.
  • ROCD Symptom Frequency (0-30) measures how often intrusive doubts and related checking, reassurance-seeking, or avoidance occur; Low frequency 0-10, Moderate frequency 11-20, High frequency 21-30.

Methodology and Evidence Base

The questionnaire uses two four-point formats. Frequency items use Never, Sometimes, Often, and Almost always; agreement items use Strongly disagree, Disagree, Not sure, and Agree. This captures recurring behavior and perceived interference without treating every item alike.

Responses are combined into the displayed scale scores, but the ranges do not reveal a point-by-point scoring formula. The displayed bands are descriptive categories for interpreting the result, and the point-by-point conversion of individual responses is not stated in the scoring information.

Its conceptual framework is consistent with relationship-centered and partner-focused obsessive-compulsive symptoms described in research by Doron and colleagues. Those works connect intrusive doubts with checking, reassurance-seeking, maladaptive beliefs, and interference. This questionnaire is conceptually consistent with those publications, not an adaptation of their measures. This ROCD questionnaire can organize relevant patterns while leaving their causes open.

Interpretation should consider current relationship context, stress, self-awareness, and recall. Self-report can introduce response bias; the result is not a diagnosis and should be considered alongside broader assessment when distress or impairment is substantial.

Literature:
  • Doron, G., Derby, D. S., Szepsenwol, O., Nahaloni, E., & Moulding, R. (2016). Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder: Interference, symptoms, and maladaptive beliefs. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 7, 58. 10.3389/fpsyt.2016.00058
  • Doron, G., Derby, D. S., Szepsenwol, O., & Talmor, D. (2012). Tainted love: Exploring relationship-centered obsessive-compulsive symptoms in two non-clinical cohorts. Journal of Obsessive-Compulsive and Related Disorders, 1(1), 16-24. 10.1016/j.jocrd.2011.11.002
  • Doron, G., Derby, D. S., Szepsenwol, O., & Talmor, D. (2012). Flaws and all: Exploring partner-focused obsessive-compulsive symptoms. Journal of Obsessive-Compulsive and Related Disorders, 1(4), 234-243. 10.1016/j.jocrd.2012.05.004
  • Doron, G., Derby, D. S., & Szepsenwol, O. (2014). Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder (ROCD): A conceptual framework. Journal of Obsessive-Compulsive and Related Disorders, 3(2), 169-180. 10.1016/j.jocrd.2013.12.005

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