Does My Dad Hate Me Quiz
In about 10 minutes, this quiz helps you understand your emotional treatment, physical safety, and personal boundaries. It is free, takes 15 questions, and can help you spot red flags and choose next steps.


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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Emotional Treatment, Control, and Care (ETCaC)
Emotional Treatment, Control, and Care (ETCaC)
Average
7.4
Normal range
5.4 — 9.4
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15
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Personal and Sexual Boundaries (PaSB)
Personal and Sexual Boundaries (PaSB)
Average
10.7
Normal range
8.2 — 13.2
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15
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Physical Safety and Threats (PSaT)
Physical Safety and Threats (PSaT)
Average
4.6
Normal range
2.1 — 7.1
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- He uses non-physical consequences and explains what rule was broken.
- He can use loud gestures or an overly stern posture, but settles when he sees that I am distressed.
- He strikes tables or objects nearby in anger, making me brace for what could happen next.
- He hits, shoves, forcibly restrains, or uses punishment that causes pain or injury.
- He sets age-appropriate limits and discusses the reasons, while allowing reasonable independence.
- He worries and checks in more than I would like, but can usually negotiate limits with me.
- He pressures me to drop certain relationships or checks my communication without a clear safety reason or agreement.
- He uses threats, punishment, or intimidation to isolate me from supportive people.
- He keeps physical distance or pauses the conversation until both of us are calmer.
- He may pace, raise his voice, or shut a door hard, without directing objects or force toward anyone.
- He throws or kicks objects away from people, or strikes furniture without directly threatening me.
- He hits, shoves, corners, restrains, throws something at me, or threatens physical harm.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Does My Dad Hate Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up quiz cannot determine whether your dad hates you, and it is not a diagnostic, clinical, or legal assessment. Instead, it helps you reflect on emotional treatment, physical safety, and personal or sexual boundaries. Scores are unvalidated summaries, not proof of intent or harm. Harm can involve a father, another adult, or a peer, while poverty or unavailable care can affect neglect-like experiences. If you may be in immediate danger, move toward a trusted person or safer place and contact local emergency help.
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