Does My Mom Love My Sister More Than Me Quiz
Understand whether your mom’s attention and reactions leave you feeling less valued than your sister in about 10 minutes. Free and no sign up, with 15 questions to help you sort feelings and prep a calm talk.


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Attention and Responsiveness (AaR)
Attention and Responsiveness (AaR)
Average
6.7
Normal range
3.9 — 9.5
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15
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Emotional Belonging and Repair (EBaR)
Emotional Belonging and Repair (EBaR)
Average
5.4
Normal range
2.7 — 8.1
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15
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Fairness and Consistency (FaC)
Fairness and Consistency (FaC)
Average
4.7
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2.6 — 6.9
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- The consequences are usually comparable or any difference is clearly explained.
- My sister sometimes receives more flexibility, though the overall response is fairly similar.
- I often receive the stronger consequence without understanding why.
- The rule is routinely enforced against me but excused or overlooked for my sister.
- She can disagree while still showing interest in who I am.
- She is somewhat less comfortable with my differences but usually remains engaged.
- She often compares my differences unfavorably with my sister’s choices.
- I feel that being different from my sister regularly costs me warmth or acceptance.
- One of us usually restarts contact, and there is some acknowledgment of what happened.
- Normal contact returns, though the hurt itself is only partly discussed.
- We resume routines without repair, and I am left carrying most of the hurt alone.
- Distance, rejection, or blame continues while she reconnects warmly with my sister.
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Does My Mom Love My Sister More Than Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up reflection quiz helps you examine whether differences in your mom’s attention, decisions, and emotional responses are leaving you feeling less valued than your sister. It cannot determine how much your mom loves either of you or reveal her motives; age, needs, stress, culture, and family circumstances can affect what you notice. Read each scale separately and use the results to organize your thoughts before a calm conversation. If you feel afraid, threatened, or harmed at home, contact a trusted adult, counselor, local support service, or emergency help.
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