Free Marriage Assessment Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1Work, family obligations, or another outside demand suddenly puts one of you under pressure. What typically happens?
  • We talk about what support is realistic and temporarily rebalance responsibilities together.
  • The less-pressured partner helps with some tasks, but expectations are not always discussed clearly.
  • Each of us mainly manages our own load because changing routines creates more stress.
  • Support is offered, though frustration often builds before responsibilities are adjusted.
• 2When you reveal a vulnerable feeling, what response do you generally expect from your partner?
  • Some care, though I may need to explain or ask directly for the response I want.
  • Discomfort or a quick shift away from the feeling, so I often keep it to myself.
  • Interest and care, with room for me to explain before solutions are offered.
  • A practical response that may help, even if I do not feel fully met emotionally.
• 3After one of you says something hurtful during an argument, what typically follows?
  • There is usually an acknowledgment, a sincere repair attempt, and some discussion of what happened.
  • We become civil again, but the hurt itself is rarely addressed.
  • An apology or clarification often happens, though the underlying issue may need another conversation.
  • The hurt tends to linger while both of us avoid discussing it.