Relationship OCD Quiz

Understand how relationship doubts, reassurance seeking, checking, and anxiety have affected you in the past month in about 10 minutes. Free 15 questions, no sign-up, with reflective results and a clear nudge to seek help if needed.
Start Online Test
Questions1510 minutes
Hi! My name is Freudly, i am an AI therapist, I will give you an interpretation of the test after you complete it.
08:30
July 22, 2026
July 22, 2026
Material has been updated
230 views
3 completions
64 likes
Verified by Daniel Hall
Psychologist with 25 years of experience
Share
Scale Explorer

How the Scales are Structured

example score
9/15
Checking and Reassurance Cycles (CaRC)
Measures how often you used checking or reassurance behaviors to reduce relationship uncertainty over the past four weeks.
Not endorsed
Some signal
Action signal
0NaNNot endorsed1NaNSome signal3NaNAction signal
A score of 9 falls in the Action signal range, suggesting these checking or reassurance cycles may be happening repeatedly and could be reinforcing distress.
example score
3/15
Daily and Relationship Impact (DaRI)
Measures how relationship anxiety has affected your daily functioning, emotional wellbeing, responsibilities, and participation in the relationship over the past four weeks.
No impact endorsed
Some signal
Action signal
0NaNNo impact endorsed1NaNSome signal3NaNAction signal
A score of 3 falls in the Action signal range, suggesting relationship anxiety has been meaningfully disruptive or distressing in at least one area during the past four weeks.
example score
9/15
Intrusive Relationship Doubts (IRD)
Measures unwanted, recurring relationship doubts and mental preoccupation over the past four weeks, not the truth or quality of the relationship.
Not endorsed in this check
Some signal
Action signal
0NaNNot endorsed in this check1NaNSome signal3NaNAction signal
A score of 9 falls in the Action signal range, suggesting recurring or persistent intrusive relationship doubts and preoccupation were endorsed in this check.
Start Online Test
just completed the test
DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Stuck in relationship doubts
41%OF USERS
People who keep questioning whether they truly love their partner or are with the right person and feel unable to get lasting certainty.
Reassurance and checking loop
34%OF USERS
People who frequently seek reassurance, analyze feelings, compare their relationship to others, or check attraction and “signs” to calm anxiety.
Anxiety after a trigger
25%OF USERS
People whose worries spiked after conflict, a life change, stress, or a past relationship hurt and want to understand what’s been happening lately.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
Benchmarking

See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Checking and Reassurance Cycles (CaRC)
Average
7.7
Normal range
5.310.1
min.
0
max.
15
Majority
This curve shows how scores are typically distributed.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Daily and Relationship Impact (DaRI)
Average
8.9
Normal range
6.211.6
min.
0
max.
15
Majority
This curve shows how scores are typically distributed.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Intrusive Relationship Doubts (IRD)
Average
4.3
Normal range
1.47.1
min.
0
max.
15
Majority
This curve shows how scores are typically distributed.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Featured On
CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It reviews relationship-focused doubts, anxiety, reassurance seeking, and checking behaviors over the past four weeks. It is a brief self-check and does not provide a diagnosis.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
It contains 15 questions and typically takes about 10 minutes to complete.
How should responses be selected?
Select the option that best matches typical experiences during the past four weeks. Use the same timeframe for all items.
What do the score ranges mean?
Score bands are unvalidated reflective summaries of reported patterns. Similar scores can occur due to stress, other mental health concerns, or relationship problems.
Can this determine whether the relationship is right or whether OCD is present?
No; results cannot confirm relationship OCD or determine relationship fit. If distress, repetitive behaviors, or daily disruption is present, consider consulting a licensed mental health professional.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Relationship OCD Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Explore how relationship doubts, reassurance seeking, checking, and anxiety have affected you during the past four weeks. This free 15-question relationship anxiety self-check requires no sign-up. It cannot diagnose relationship OCD or determine whether a relationship is right for you; similar experiences can arise from stress, other mental health concerns, or genuine relationship issues. The score bands are unvalidated reflective summaries. If distress, repetitive behaviors, or disruption concerns you, consider speaking with a licensed mental health professional.

Popular tests
Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI)
This self-report measure is used to assess narcissism as a personality trai…
Start Test
Yale-Brown Obsessive Compulsive Scale (Y-BOCS)
This measure is used to rapidly quantify the current severity of obsessive…
Start Test
CRAFFT Screening Test (CRAFFT 2.1)
This brief screening measure is designed to identify potential alcohol and…
Start Test
Patient Health Questionnaire-9 (PHQ-9)
This measure is commonly used to quickly screen for the presence and severi…
Start Test
Maslach Burnout Inventory (MBI)
This self-report measure is used to assess occupational burnout symptoms in…
Start Test
Adolescent Anxiety Questionnaire
This measure is designed to support a brief appraisal of anxiety symptoms a…
Start Test
Emotional Creativity Inventory (ECI)
This self-report measure assesses individual differences in the originality…
Start Test
Horne–Ostberg Morningness–Eveningness Questionnaire (MEQ)
Circadian preferences influence typical patterns of alertness and sleep tim…
Start Test
Ambivalent Sexism Inventory (ASI)
This measure is designed to assess attitudes toward women, including both o…
Start Test
Internalized Misogyny Scale (IMS)
This measure is designed to assess internalized negative beliefs and stereo…
Start Test
Perceived Stress Scale (PSS-10)
This self-report measure assesses the degree to which individuals appraise…
Start Test
Impulsive Behavior Scale (SUPPS-P)
Impulsivity is a multidimensional construct that is often assessed with bri…
Start Test
Clinical Institute Withdrawal Assessment for Alcohol, Revised (CIWA-Ar)
This rating scale is used to rapidly assess the severity of alcohol withdra…
Start Test
Positive and Negative Affect Schedule (PANAS)
This measure provides a brief self-report assessment of current or typical…
Start Test
Light Triad Scale (LTS)
This self-report measure assesses prosocial personality tendencies and orie…
Start Test
Suicidal Ideation Scale
In clinical settings, the Suicidal Ideation Scale is used to structure an i…
Start Test
Body Dysmorphic Disorder Scale (BDD-D)
This brief self-report measure is designed to screen for and quantify distr…
Start Test
Beck Anxiety Inventory (BAI)
This measure is a brief self-report inventory used to screen for anxiety sy…
Start Test
Differential Test of Perfectionism
This instrument is used to screen for perfectionism-related attitudes and t…
Start Test
Locus of Control Scale
This measure assesses generalized expectancies regarding the degree to whic…
Start Test
New Apathy Scale
This brief self-report measure is used to screen for apathy-related symptom…
Start Test
Perth Alexithymia Questionnaire (PAQ)
This measure assesses individual differences in alexithymia, including diff…
Start Test
Social Intelligence Scale
This brief self-report measure is designed to support rapid screening of in…
Start Test
Fear Test
This measure is designed to evaluate individual differences in fear-related…
Start Test
Neuroticism Level Scale
The measure is intended for brief screening of an individual’s propensity t…
Start Test
Aggressiveness Indicators Screening Questionnaire
This screening tool is designed to quickly identify behavioral indicators a…
Start Test
Comments
Leave a Comment