Are We Growing Apart Quiz

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July 22, 2026
July 22, 2026
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How the Scales are Structured

example score
7/15
Communication and Repair (CaR)
Measures how well you and your partner can express concerns, feel understood, and repair connection after tension.
Open & Repairing
Strained Dialogue
Communication Impasse
05Open & Repairing610Strained Dialogue1115Communication Impasse
A score of 7 suggests conversations sometimes happen but may get derailed by defensiveness, avoidance, or incomplete repair that leaves some distance afterward.
example score
7/15
Everyday Emotional Connection (EEC)
Measures everyday emotional presence, affection, curiosity, and enjoyment of ordinary time together.
Connected Rhythm
Intermittent Distance
Pronounced Disconnection
05Connected Rhythm610Intermittent Distance1115Pronounced Disconnection
A score of 7 suggests intermittent distance, where connection still happens but reduced affection, distraction, or parallel routines may be becoming noticeable.
example score
9/15
Shared Direction and Mutual Investment (SDaMI)
Measures how aligned you and your partner feel about the future, mutual prioritization, and willingness to invest in the relationship.
Shared Momentum
Diverging Priorities
Separate Trajectories
05Shared Momentum610Diverging Priorities1115Separate Trajectories
A score of 9 suggests diverging priorities, where commitment may still be present but shared planning and effort feel uneven or uncertain.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Long-term partners drifting
41%OF USERS
People in a steady relationship who feel daily closeness fading and want to check what’s changed before it grows into resentment.
After repeated conflict
34%OF USERS
Partners who keep having the same arguments and want to understand whether they reconnect afterward or stay emotionally stuck.
At a crossroads
25%OF USERS
People considering next steps like moving in, marriage, or a major life change who want to gauge shared commitment and future plans.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Communication and Repair (CaR)
Average
9.4
Normal range
6.911.9
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Everyday Emotional Connection (EEC)
Average
7.6
Normal range
5.49.7
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15
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Shared Direction and Mutual Investment (SDaMI)
Average
6.6
Normal range
49.3
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15
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It assesses perceived closeness, communication after tension, and investment in a shared future. It is designed for reflection on everyday relationship patterns.
How long does it take, and how many questions are included?
It takes about 10 minutes to complete. It includes 15 questions.
How should the results be interpreted?
Scores indicate areas that may feel more connected and areas where distance may be developing. Results are not a diagnosis and do not predict relationship outcomes.
Can partners receive different results about the same relationship?
Yes. Each person can experience the same relationship differently, so scores may not match.
What if the relationship involves fear, threats, coercion, or harm?
Prioritize immediate safety and seek support from trusted resources. This quiz is not appropriate for managing situations involving danger or abuse.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Are We Growing Apart Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Wondering whether you and your partner are becoming less connected? This 15-question reflection explores everyday closeness, communication after tension, and investment in a shared future. Review each score separately to see where the relationship feels connected and where distance may be developing. Results are reflective, not a diagnosis or prediction, and partners may experience the same relationship differently. No sign-up is needed. If the relationship involves fear, threats, coercion, or harm, prioritize safety and seek trusted support.

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