Are We Growing Apart Quiz
Understand whether you and your partner feel less connected in about 10 minutes. Get separate, nonjudgmental insights on closeness, repair after conflict, and shared future with no sign-up.
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BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Communication and Repair (CaR)
Communication and Repair (CaR)
Average
9.4
Normal range
6.9 — 11.9
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15
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Everyday Emotional Connection (EEC)
Everyday Emotional Connection (EEC)
Average
7.6
Normal range
5.4 — 9.7
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0
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15
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Shared Direction and Mutual Investment (SDaMI)
Shared Direction and Mutual Investment (SDaMI)
Average
6.6
Normal range
4 — 9.3
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- Spending at least part of it together sounds genuinely appealing.
- I would be open to time together, but either choice would feel fine.
- I would usually choose my own activity without considering shared time.
- I would strongly prefer not to spend the hour together.
- We discuss how to support the goal and adapt as a couple.
- We coordinate the practical details but spend little time on how the change affects us.
- The goal moves ahead largely as an individual decision, with limited consultation.
- The change highlights that we no longer consider each other when making major choices.
- Rarely; sharing feelings often seems to create more distance.
- Sometimes, especially when the timing and topic are comfortable.
- Often; even without agreeing, they usually grasp what I mean.
- Not often; conversations tend to stay practical or surface-level.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Are We Growing Apart Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering whether you and your partner are becoming less connected? This 15-question reflection explores everyday closeness, communication after tension, and investment in a shared future. Review each score separately to see where the relationship feels connected and where distance may be developing. Results are reflective, not a diagnosis or prediction, and partners may experience the same relationship differently. No sign-up is needed. If the relationship involves fear, threats, coercion, or harm, prioritize safety and seek trusted support.
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