Am I Too Obsessed with My Boyfriend Quiz
See in 10 minutes whether your thoughts, tradeoffs, or checking around your boyfriend feel too consuming. Get three clear scores on focus, balance, and reassurance with supportive, nonjudgmental insights.
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Personal Balance (PB)
Personal Balance (PB)
Average
6.8
Normal range
4.9 — 8.6
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Reassurance and Monitoring (RaM)
Reassurance and Monitoring (RaM)
Average
5.3
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2.7 — 8
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15
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Relationship Preoccupation (RP)
Relationship Preoccupation (RP)
Average
7
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5 — 9
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I frequently replay details and search for meanings I may have missed.
- I sometimes revisit a particular comment if it felt ambiguous.
- I often replay parts of it and wonder whether his tone signaled something.
- I generally let the conversation pass unless there was a clear issue.
- I enjoy telling him, but I can also simply experience the moment or share it elsewhere.
- He is usually my first thought, though waiting to tell him feels easy.
- The moment can feel incomplete until I have shared it with him.
- I struggle to enjoy or process the moment if I cannot reach him promptly.
- I reflect on whether there is a specific issue, then raise it directly if needed.
- I ask for reassurance once and can usually accept his response.
- I ask in several ways because one answer does not settle the doubt for long.
- I repeatedly test, question, or provoke him to obtain convincing proof.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
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Am I Too Obsessed with My Boyfriend Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up quiz helps you reflect on whether thoughts about your boyfriend, relationship-led tradeoffs, or reassurance habits are taking up more space than you want. You will receive three separate scores covering mental preoccupation, personal balance, and reassurance or monitoring. The results are reflective summaries, not a diagnosis or a judgment about how much you care. Consider whether any pattern causes distress, creates conflict, or pulls you away from your own needs, goals, and relationships.
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