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Kindness Test

Kindness Test - Free 45-Question Self-Assessment - FreudlyTake a free 45-question kindness test to see how you balance empathy, boundaries and self-compassion. Quick, no sign-up needed. Start now!en
In about 9 minutes and 45 statements you get a profile of your kindness across five facets: empathy, prosocial action, boundaries, self-compassion and forgiveness. Free and without sign-up, with results that show where your kindness holds and where it drains you.
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August 31, 2026
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How the Scales are Structured

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37/45
Empathy and perspective taking (Eapt)
Measures the ability to perceive another person's emotional state and take their perspective before forming an opinion.
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Medium
High
920: Low | 2133: Medium | 3445: High
A score of 37 out of 45 falls in the High band, which describes a clearly established tendency in this facet.
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33/45
Prosocial action (Pa)
Measures how often the intention to help turns into concrete acts of support and generosity.
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Medium
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920: Low | 2133: Medium | 3445: High
A score of 33 out of 45 falls in the Medium band, which describes a present but uneven tendency in this facet.
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26/45
Kindness with boundaries (Kwb)
Measures the ability to care for others without neglecting yourself, hold a no, and avoid the people-pleasing that drains you.
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Medium
High
920: Low | 2133: Medium | 3445: High
A score of 26 out of 45 falls in the Medium band, which describes a present but uneven tendency in this facet.
example score
24/45
Self-compassion (Sc)
Measures kindness towards yourself in the face of error and difficulty, as against self-criticism that paralyses.
Low
Medium
High
920: Low | 2133: Medium | 3445: High
A score of 24 out of 45 falls in the Medium band, which describes a present but uneven tendency in this facet.
example score
31/45
Benevolent interpretation and forgiveness (Biaf)
Measures the willingness to attribute good intent and to release resentment without denying the harm done.
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Medium
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920: Low | 2133: Medium | 3445: High
A score of 31 out of 45 falls in the Medium band, which describes a present but uneven tendency in this facet.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

People who empty themselves caring
38%OF USERS
Those who recognise that they help a great deal and end up drained, and want to see where their kindness stops being a choice and becomes an obligation.
Couples and close relationships
34%OF USERS
People who want to listen better, disagree without doing harm, apologise clearly and keep agreements without always giving way.
Those who demand too much of themselves
28%OF USERS
People who are kind to everyone except themselves, interested in applying to themselves the standard they already offer others.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Empathy and perspective taking (Eapt)
Empathy and perspective taking (Eapt)
Average
27.9
Normal range
22.932.9
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9
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45
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Prosocial action (Pa)
Prosocial action (Pa)
Average
28.4
Normal range
2333.7
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9
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45
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Kindness with boundaries (Kwb)
Kindness with boundaries (Kwb)
Average
32.4
Normal range
27.737.2
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9
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45
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Self-compassion (S)
Self-compassion (S)
Average
18.1
Normal range
13.322.8
min.
9
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45
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Benevolent interpretation and forgiveness (Biaf)
Benevolent interpretation and forgiveness (Biaf)
Average
18.9
Normal range
13.524.3
min.
9
max.
45
This curve shows how scores are typically distributed.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

Read each statement and choose how often it reflects the way you usually think and act. There are no right or wrong answers and nothing here judges your worth as a person. Answer for how you are in practice, not how you think you should be, and move without dwelling too long: the first reaction is usually the most accurate. Some statements are deliberately worded the other way round, so they are worth reading carefully.
    • Never or almost never
    • Rarely
    • Sometimes
    • Often
    • Always or almost always
    • Never or almost never
    • Rarely
    • Sometimes
    • Often
    • Always or almost always
    • Never or almost never
    • Rarely
    • Sometimes
    • Often
    • Always or almost always
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Kindness Test - Symptoms and Signs

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What is your kindness like when nobody applauds it and it costs you something? This free 45-statement inventory does not measure what you know about kindness but how you usually behave: whether you register what is happening for the other person, whether you turn intention into concrete acts, whether you can say no without guilt, how you treat yourself when you get things wrong, and how easily you let a grievance go. Answer how often each statement fits you and you will get a profile across five facets, with its strengths and its points of strain. No sign-up, in about nine minutes.

Author: Carter, P., Russell, K.
Literature: The five facets of this inventory draw on models widely used in research on empathy and prosocial behaviour: Davis, M. H. (1983), Interpersonal Reactivity Index; Carlo, G. and Randall, B. A. (2002), Prosocial Tendencies Measure; Helgeson, V. S. and Fritz, H. L. (1998), Unmitigated Communion Scale; Neff, K. D. (2003), Self-Compassion Scale; Thompson, L. Y. et al. (2005), Heartland Forgiveness Scale. The questionnaire itself is Freudly's own work, informed by those frameworks, and is intended as a self-observation tool rather than a diagnostic test.
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