Am I a Good Girlfriend Quiz
Understand your relationship habits in about 10 minutes. Get a clear snapshot of communication, care, and conflict repair, with supportive insights rather than judgment.


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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Care and Respect (CaR)
Care and Respect (CaR)
Average
7.8
Normal range
5 — 10.5
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15
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Open Communication (OC)
Open Communication (OC)
Average
9.8
Normal range
7 — 12.6
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15
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Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Repair and Reliability (RaR)
Repair and Reliability (RaR)
Average
4.3
Normal range
2.4 — 6.2
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15
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Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
Once you complete the test, your result will appear on the scale so you can see how you compare.
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- I accept it but focus privately on my disappointment and wait for them to make the next plan.
- I give them space and make other plans, then reconnect when the disappointment has passed.
- I say I understand while also acknowledging that I was looking forward to seeing them.
- I accept their need for rest, express my disappointment without blame, and ask about rescheduling.
- Reconnect through affection or normal conversation and avoid reopening the conflict.
- Wait for my partner to apologize, then acknowledge my part in return.
- Discuss what each of us did and try to resolve both sides at the same time.
- Acknowledge my own words and their impact first, then invite a mutual repair conversation.
- I set my preference aside at first because preserving harmony matters to me.
- I hint at what I want so the conversation does not feel confrontational.
- I explain my view clearly, although I may focus more on being understood than asking questions.
- I state my need directly and invite my partner to explain theirs so we can compare both.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Am I a Good Girlfriend Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Being a good girlfriend is not about being perfect or meeting one universal standard. This free, no-sign-up quiz explores practical habits that can support a healthy partnership: communicating openly, showing care while respecting autonomy, and repairing conflict reliably. Your results are reflective summaries, not a verdict on your worth or the quality of your entire relationship; relationship dynamics are mutual, personal, and shaped by context.
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