Do My Parents Love Me Quiz
Get clarity on your relationship with your parents in about 10 minutes. A free 15 question self check based on real life patterns around care, safety, and boundaries.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
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Emotional Care, Control, and Neglect (ECCaN)
Emotional Care, Control, and Neglect (ECCaN)
Average
7.6
Normal range
5.4 — 9.7
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15
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Physical Force and Safety (PFaS)
Physical Force and Safety (PFaS)
Average
6.4
Normal range
4.1 — 8.7
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15
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Sexual and Personal Boundaries (SaPB)
Sexual and Personal Boundaries (SaPB)
Average
5.4
Normal range
3.3 — 7.4
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- They generally take reasonable precautions and do not use danger to frighten me.
- They have acted aggressively or carelessly in a way that made me fear for my safety.
- They repeatedly transport or supervise me while seriously impaired or behave recklessly despite my fear.
- They deliberately threaten a crash, abandon me in a dangerous place, or use an immediate hazard to force compliance.
- I can usually step away, possibly after explaining where I am going.
- A parent may follow me, shout, or briefly stand in the way, but I can ultimately leave.
- A parent repeatedly blocks exits, takes away access to communication, or locks me in a space.
- A parent physically restrains or confines me, or prevents me from reaching emergency help.
- They listen or make a reasonable effort to comfort me, even if they need a little time.
- They are sometimes distracted or awkward, but they usually return to the conversation.
- They often dismiss, ridicule, or turn my feelings into a criticism of me.
- They threaten or punish me for seeking comfort or showing distress.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Do My Parents Love Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering whether your parents love you can bring up confusing or painful feelings. This free, no-sign-up quiz reviews observable patterns involving emotional care, physical safety, and personal boundaries. It is a non-diagnostic self-check, not a diagnostic tool, and cannot determine what a parent feels, diagnose abuse, or provide clinical or legal conclusions. Harm can involve parents, other adults, or peers. For immediate danger, injury, threats, or sexual coercion, contact emergency services or a trusted adult, counselor, safeguarding professional, or local protection service.
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