Who Loves Me Quiz

Understand where you stand with someone in 10 minutes by rating their contact, emotional investment, and signs beyond friendship. Get clear scores across 15 questions to spot patterns and support an honest talk.

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How the Scales are Structured

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5/15

Attention and Initiative (AaI)

This scale measures how often the person takes initiative to reach out, make time, and sustain contact with you.

Limited initiative

Shared or uneven initiative

Consistent initiative

0 – NaN: Limited initiative | 6 – NaN: Shared or uneven initiative | 11 – NaN: Consistent initiative

A score of 5 suggests you have observed limited active effort from this person to initiate or maintain contact, or there have been few chances to see it.

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4/15

Beyond-Friendship Signals (BFS)

Measures how strongly the other person’s observable behavior suggests interest that goes beyond typical friendship.

Friendship-coded or unclear

Possible romantic undertone

Direct romantic signaling

0 – NaN: Friendship-coded or unclear | 6 – NaN: Possible romantic undertone | 11 – NaN: Direct romantic signaling

A score of 4 suggests you have noticed few clear beyond-friendship signals, and the interaction you described could reasonably fit a friendship pattern.

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8/15

Emotional Investment (EI)

This scale reflects how much emotional attention, trust, and personal support you observe from the person toward you over time.

Light involvement

Growing involvement

Strong investment

0 – NaN: Light involvement | 6 – NaN: Growing involvement | 11 – NaN: Strong investment

A score of 8 suggests growing emotional involvement, with some meaningful support and attention that may not be fully consistent yet.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Crushing on a friend

41%OF USERS

They like someone they already know well and want to tell whether the attention and warmth are more than friendly.

Mixed signals after dating

34%OF USERS

They have history with someone and are trying to make sense of inconsistent contact, effort, and emotional openness.

Long-distance uncertainty

25%OF USERS

They are apart from someone they care about and want to judge commitment based on how often and how thoughtfully the other person reaches out.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.

Attention and Initiative (AaI)

Average

6.6

Normal range

4.4 — 8.8

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Beyond-Friendship Signals (BS)

Average

10.6

Normal range

8.5 — 12.7

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Emotional Investment (EI)

Average

5.6

Normal range

3.5 — 7.6

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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?

It summarizes observed behavior in three areas: contact effort, emotional investment, and signals that may go beyond friendship. It does not measure hidden feelings or confirm love.

How should the selected person be chosen?

Select one person and answer based on repeated, real-life interactions over time. Avoid using a single event or online impressions as the main basis.

How should the questions be answered?

Base responses on specific, consistent actions that have been observed. If information is unclear, choose the option that best matches the most typical pattern.

How should the scores be interpreted?

Scores reflect patterns in reported behavior and may suggest stronger or weaker indicators of interest. Direct, respectful conversation and sustained behavior carry more weight than any single score.

How long does it take, and how many questions are included?

Completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 15 questions.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

About This Assessment

Who Loves Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Choose one person and reflect on how they act around you. This free, no-sign-up quiz looks at three parts of a possible connection: their effort to stay in contact, their emotional investment, and signals that may go beyond friendship. Your scores summarize patterns you have observed; they cannot reveal someone’s private feelings or prove that they love you. Treat consistent actions and direct, respectful conversation as more meaningful than any single clue.

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