Is He Losing Interest Quiz

Designed for relationship self-reflection, the Is He Losing Interest Quiz presents 15 questions and takes about 10 minutes. Your result highlights patterns in communication, emotional connection, initiative, and relationship clarity, helping you organize what you have noticed and identify what you may want to discuss.

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Scale Explorer

How the Scales are Structured

Communication Consistency and InitiativeCCaI

Measures how consistent and mutual his recent communication and initiative have been based on your observations.

example score10/15

10/15Mixed Contactexample score

0 – 5Steady Contact

6 – 10Mixed Contact

11 – 15Marked Communication Shift

A score of 10 suggests mixed contact, with uneven initiative or responsiveness compared with what you consider your earlier baseline.

Emotional Presence and ConnectionEPaC

Measures signs of reduced warmth, attentiveness, or emotional engagement in your recent interactions.

example score6/15

6/15Uneven Connectionexample score

0 – 5Present Connection

6 – 10Uneven Connection

11 – 15Sustained Detachment

A score of 6 suggests an Uneven Connection, where emotional presence and curiosity feel inconsistent rather than reliably steady.

Relationship Investment and ClarityRIaC

Measures the level of uncertainty in his planning, follow-through, inclusion, and relationship-related conversations.

example score7/15

7/15Uneven Investmentexample score

0 – 5Visible Investment

6 – 10Uneven Investment

11 – 15Limited Investment Signals

A score of 7 suggests uneven investment, where some follow-through or clarity is present but inconsistent enough that naming specific needs may help you interpret the pattern.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Noticing communication drop

41%OF USERS

They’ve seen fewer texts, shorter replies, or less initiative lately and want a grounded read on whether it’s a pattern or a rough week.

Dating, not yet official

34%OF USERS

They’re in the early-to-mid stages of seeing someone and are trying to tell if the connection is cooling or simply moving at a different pace.

Long-term relationship doubts

25%OF USERS

They’ve been together for a while and are worried that emotional distance or reduced effort might signal deeper issues worth discussing.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.

Shaded area — where most people score

Dot — the average

You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test

Communication Consistency and InitiativeCCaI

You?

Average4.7

Typical rangeTypical2.2 – 7.2

Possible0 – 15

Emotional Presence and ConnectionEPaC

You?

Average10.1

Typical rangeTypical7.3 – 12.9

Possible0 – 15

Relationship Investment and ClarityRIaC

You?

Average8.9

Typical rangeTypical6.7 – 11

Possible0 – 15

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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

- He listens politely in the moment but rarely asks about it later.
- He often remembers details and follows up without prompting.
- He listens and sometimes follows up, depending on the subject.
- He regularly redirects the conversation or closes the topic quickly.
- He readily commits when his schedule allows, even if I raised the idea.
- He stays vague and rarely turns possibilities into actual plans.
- He proposes ideas or helps choose specific dates.
- He repeatedly avoids or declines plans without suggesting alternatives.
- He repeatedly avoids choosing a time or lets proposed plans lapse.
- He accepts a time, though I usually handle the coordination.
- He identifies a realistic time or offers an alternative that works.
- He says he is busy and leaves the timing unresolved.

These are 3 of the 15 real questions — the rest appear in the test. No sign-up needed to start.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Is He Losing Interest Quiz - Description and methodology of the test

People noticing a change in closeness can use the Is He Losing Interest Quiz to organize observations without treating one awkward exchange as proof. It suits anyone asking whether my boyfriend is losing interest in me and wanting a grounded starting point for conversation. The profile focuses on recurring interaction patterns, helping you separate temporary pressure from a change that deserves clearer discussion.

What This Assessment Measures

The questions compare recent interactions with an established pattern, not one delayed reply. They cover news, conversation, affection, inclusion, plans, missed calls, follow-through, and discussions about change. If you wonder whether I am overthinking or he is losing interest, the result locates concern across several behaviors.

Three displayed dimensions are:

Communication Consistency and Initiative (0-15) reflects contact and initiative: Steady Contact (0-5) is largely mutual, Mixed Contact (6-10) is uneven, and Marked Communication Shift (11-15) signals a sustained drop.
Emotional Presence and Connection (0-15) reflects warmth and engagement: Present Connection (0-5) means presence is intact, Uneven Connection (6-10) means warmth varies, and Sustained Detachment (11-15) means disconnection recurs.
Relationship Investment and Clarity (0-15) reflects planning, follow-through, inclusion, and direction: Visible Investment (0-5) means clear effort, Uneven Investment (6-10) means mixed signals, and Limited Investment Signals (11-15) means weak follow-through recurs.

Methodology and Evidence Base

Each item presents a relationship situation with four response options describing different patterns. The respondent compares recent behavior with an earlier baseline and notices follow-through over time. Scoring groups responses by dimension; higher scores represent more reported signs of reduced contact, emotional connection, or relationship clarity, not a private motive.

Guerrero et al. (1993) offers the closest conceptual link through maintenance behavior, relationship development, and disengagement. The PPRS supports attention to responsiveness and felt understanding, while Crasta et al. (2021) adds responsiveness and insensitivity. The Investment Model Scale contributes commitment and investment concepts. The questionnaire is conceptually consistent with these works, not an adaptation of them.

That framework helps when asking whether he is losing feelings, but it does not identify his private motive. The online questionnaire has no stated standardized norms or diagnostic cutoffs. Self-report can reflect memory, current emotion, expectations, and ambiguous behavior, so a person wondering whether my boyfriend has lost interest in me should compare the profile with specific examples and a direct conversation.

Literature:

Laura K. Guerrero, Sylvie V. Eloy, and Alisa I. Wabnik. (1993). Linking Maintenance Strategies to Relationship Development and Disengagement: A Reconceptualization. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 10(2), 273-283. 10.1177/026540759301000207
Dev Crasta, Ronald D. Rogge, Michael R. Maniaci, and Harry T. Reis. (2021). Toward an Optimized Measure of Perceived Partner Responsiveness: Development and Validation of the Perceived Responsiveness and Insensitivity Scale. Psychological Assessment, 33(4), 338-355. 10.1037/pas0000986
Harry T. Reis, Dev Crasta, Ronald D. Rogge, Michael R. Maniaci, and Cheryl L. Carmichael. (2017). Perceived Partner Responsiveness Scale (PPRS). In The Sourcebook of Listening Research: Methodology and Measures, 516-521. Wiley. 10.1002/9781119102991.ch57
Caryl E. Rusbult, John M. Martz, and Christopher R. Agnew. (1998). The Investment Model Scale: Measuring Commitment Level, Satisfaction Level, Quality of Alternatives, and Investment Size. Personal Relationships, 5(4), 357-387. 10.1111/j.1475-6811.1998.tb00177.x

Updated: 2026-07-22

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