Is the Relationship Over Quiz

Get clarity in 10 minutes on emotional connection, repair after conflict, and future alignment. Free, no sign-up, 15 quick items with reflective results, not a verdict; if safety is at risk, seek help.
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July 22, 2026
July 22, 2026
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How the Scales are Structured

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4/15
Emotional Connection (EC)
Measures current warmth, affection, interest, and desire for closeness in your relationship.
Connection depleted
Connection mixed
Connection active
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A score of 4 suggests emotional connection currently feels depleted, with distance or relief outweighing the wish to reconnect right now.
example score
7/15
Future Alignment (FA)
Measures how compatible and freely chosen the relationship feels when you picture your shared future and priorities.
Divergent paths
Unsettled future
Shared future
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A score of 7 suggests some shared direction exists, but there are still significant open questions about how well your future plans and priorities align.
example score
8/15
Mutual Repair (MR)
Measures how consistently both partners address conflicts, follow through on changes, and reconnect after strain.
Repair stalled
Repair uneven
Repair collaborative
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A score of 8 suggests repair happens at times, but consistency or follow-through may be limited or uneven between partners.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Drifting Apart Partners
41%OF USERS
People who feel the emotional closeness has faded and want clarity on whether the relationship still has a workable foundation.
Post-Fight Rebuilders
34%OF USERS
People coming off recurring conflict who want to check if repair is happening or if the same issues keep cycling back.
Future-Mismatch Questioners
25%OF USERS
People unsure whether their goals, values, or timelines still align and want a structured way to reflect on next steps.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Emotional Connection (EC)
Average
4.8
Normal range
2.27.4
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Future Alignment (FA)
Average
3.8
Normal range
1.26.5
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Mutual Repair (MR)
Average
6.2
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4.18.4
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It reviews three areas that often affect relationship viability: emotional connection, mutual repair after conflict, and alignment on the future. The results summarize patterns based on recent experience.
How should responses be selected?
Answer based on the most recent weeks or months rather than earlier periods or hoped-for changes. Use the option that best matches what happens most of the time.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 15 questions.
Do results determine whether to stay or leave?
No; results are reflective summaries and not a verdict or instruction. They are not a diagnosis and do not replace professional assessment.
What if there is fear, coercion, threats, or violence?
Prioritize safety and seek support from trusted contacts, relationship-abuse services, or emergency resources as needed. Do not use the quiz as the primary guide in situations involving harm or control.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Is the Relationship Over Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

This free, no-sign-up relationship quiz helps you reflect on three areas that often shape whether a partnership still feels workable: emotional connection, mutual repair, and future alignment. Answer from your recent experience, not from how the relationship used to be or how you hope it might become. Results are reflective summaries, not a verdict, diagnosis, or instruction to stay or leave. If fear, coercion, threats, or violence are present, prioritize safety and contact trusted support, a relationship-abuse service, or emergency help where needed.

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