Is the Relationship Over Quiz
Get clarity in 10 minutes on emotional connection, repair after conflict, and future alignment. Free, no sign-up, 15 quick items with reflective results, not a verdict; if safety is at risk, seek help.
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Emotional Connection (EC)
Emotional Connection (EC)
Average
4.8
Normal range
2.2 — 7.4
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15
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Future Alignment (FA)
Future Alignment (FA)
Average
3.8
Normal range
1.2 — 6.5
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15
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Mutual Repair (MR)
Mutual Repair (MR)
Average
6.2
Normal range
4.1 — 8.4
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15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS
Example Questions From the Test
- It usually feels unwanted, forced, or emotionally empty to me
- It is rare and I feel mostly neutral about that
- It appears naturally at times and usually feels welcome
- It is a wanted and meaningful part of how we connect
- I feel disappointed that the time apart is ending
- I feel little change either way
- I look forward to some parts of being together again
- I genuinely miss them and feel eager to reconnect
- Neither of us found a workable way to engage with it
- Most of the effort came from one person
- Both of us made some effort, though not always at the same time
- Both of us stayed engaged and contributed meaningful changes
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About This Assessment
Is the Relationship Over Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This free, no-sign-up relationship quiz helps you reflect on three areas that often shape whether a partnership still feels workable: emotional connection, mutual repair, and future alignment. Answer from your recent experience, not from how the relationship used to be or how you hope it might become. Results are reflective summaries, not a verdict, diagnosis, or instruction to stay or leave. If fear, coercion, threats, or violence are present, prioritize safety and contact trusted support, a relationship-abuse service, or emergency help where needed.
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