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Is the Relationship Over Quiz

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With 15 questions, the Is the Relationship Over Quiz takes about 10 minutes to complete. It explores emotional connection, future alignment, and mutual repair, helping you see whether connection feels active, mixed, or depleted and giving you a structured starting point for honest reflection about your relationship.
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Scale Explorer

How the Scales are Structured

Emotional ConnectionEC
Measures current warmth, affection, interest, and desire for closeness in your relationship.
example score4/15
4/15Connection depletedexample score
0 – 5Connection depleted
6 – 10Connection mixed
11 – 15Connection active
A score of 4 suggests emotional connection currently feels depleted, with distance or relief outweighing the wish to reconnect right now.
Future AlignmentFA
Measures how compatible and freely chosen the relationship feels when you picture your shared future and priorities.
example score7/15
7/15Unsettled futureexample score
0 – 5Divergent paths
6 – 10Unsettled future
11 – 15Shared future
A score of 7 suggests some shared direction exists, but there are still significant open questions about how well your future plans and priorities align.
Mutual RepairMR
Measures how consistently both partners address conflicts, follow through on changes, and reconnect after strain.
example score8/15
8/15Repair unevenexample score
0 – 5Repair stalled
6 – 10Repair uneven
11 – 15Repair collaborative
A score of 8 suggests repair happens at times, but consistency or follow-through may be limited or uneven between partners.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Drifting Apart Partners
41%OF USERS
People who feel the emotional closeness has faded and want clarity on whether the relationship still has a workable foundation.
Post-Fight Rebuilders
34%OF USERS
People coming off recurring conflict who want to check if repair is happening or if the same issues keep cycling back.
Future-Mismatch Questioners
25%OF USERS
People unsure whether their goals, values, or timelines still align and want a structured way to reflect on next steps.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
Benchmarking

See How You Compare

Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Shaded area — where most people score
Dot — the average
You — your score lands on each curve after the test— your score, after the test
Emotional ConnectionEC
You?
Average4.8
Typical rangeTypical2.2 – 7.4
Possible0 – 15
Future AlignmentFA
You?
Average3.8
Typical rangeTypical1.2 – 6.5
Possible0 – 15
Mutual RepairMR
You?
Average6.2
Typical rangeTypical4.1 – 8.4
Possible0 – 15
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SAMPLE QUESTIONS

Example Questions From the Test

    • It usually feels unwanted, forced, or emotionally empty to me
    • It is rare and I feel mostly neutral about that
    • It appears naturally at times and usually feels welcome
    • It is a wanted and meaningful part of how we connect
    • I feel disappointed that the time apart is ending
    • I feel little change either way
    • I look forward to some parts of being together again
    • I genuinely miss them and feel eager to reconnect
    • Neither of us found a workable way to engage with it
    • Most of the effort came from one person
    • Both of us made some effort, though not always at the same time
    • Both of us stayed engaged and contributed meaningful changes
These are 3 of the 15 real questions — the rest appear in the test. No sign-up needed to start.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

Is the Relationship Over Quiz - Description and methodology of the test

People weighing whether to continue, reconnect, or make a deliberate change can use the Is the Relationship Over Quiz to organize feelings that are otherwise difficult to compare. It suits anyone reflecting on a current partnership, including someone considering the Is My Marriage Worth Saving Quiz. The result helps compare present connection, future fit, and both partners’ willingness to repair strain.

What This Assessment Explores

Rather than forcing a yes-or-no answer about whether a relationship has ended, the assessment examines closeness, shared direction, and repair after strain.

Questions cover warmth, affection, closeness, plans, priorities, emotional needs, responsibility, and what follows disagreement. Patterns show whether strain centres on connection, life fit, or repair in the Is Your Relationship Over Quiz.

The dimensions are:

  • Emotional Connection (0-15) reflects present warmth, interest, affection, and desire for closeness; Connection depleted (0-5), Connection mixed (6-10), and Connection active (11-15) identify the bands.
  • Future Alignment (0-15) reflects whether staying together feels freely chosen and compatible with both partners’ desired lives; Divergent paths (0-5), Unsettled future (6-10), and Shared future (11-15) describe the bands.
  • Mutual Repair (0-15) reflects whether both partners address strain, adjust, and follow through on change; Repair stalled (0-5), Repair uneven (6-10), and Repair collaborative (11-15) describe the bands.

Methodology and Evidence Base

Each item presents four response choices, moving from withdrawal, uncertainty, or stalled effort toward closeness, shared choice, and collaborative change. Someone considering the Can I Save My Marriage Quiz may find the repair dimension useful, but the questionnaire does not specify how many points each option contributes. The numerical ranges therefore should not be reverse-engineered into a scoring rule.

As a structured self-report questionnaire, it uses themes conceptually consistent with several distinct studies: Rhoades et al.’s study of commitment and relationship stability; Fletcher, Simpson, and Thomas’s relationship-quality research; Gottman and Krokoff’s conflict-interaction study; and Stanley and Markman’s work on voluntary commitment and pressure-free choice. It is not presented as an adaptation of those instruments, and those studies do not establish norms for this online version.

For someone considering the Is My Relationship Ending Quiz, interpretation remains a self-report snapshot shaped by context, memory, self-awareness, and honesty. The displayed bands are interpretive labels rather than population norms or clinical cutoffs. Fear, coercion, threats, or violence warrant support regardless of the total score.

Literature:
  • Rhoades, Galena K., Scott M. Stanley, and Howard J. Markman. (2010). Should I stay or should I go? Predicting dating relationship stability from four aspects of commitment. Journal of Family Psychology, 24(5), 543-550. 10.1037/a0021008
  • Fletcher, Garth J. O., Jeffry A. Simpson, and Geoff Thomas. (2000). The Measurement of Perceived Relationship Quality Components: A Confirmatory Factor Analytic Approach. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 26(3), 340-354. 10.1177/0146167200265007
  • Gottman, John M., and Lowell J. Krokoff. (1989). Marital interaction and satisfaction: A longitudinal view. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 57(1), 47-52. 10.1037/0022-006X.57.1.47
  • Stanley, Scott M., and Howard J. Markman. (1992). Assessing Commitment in Personal Relationships. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 54(3), 595-608. 10.2307/353245
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