Am I Obsessed with My Crush Quiz

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How the Scales are Structured

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3/NaN

Emotional Dependence (ED)

Measures how much your mood and self-worth depend on your crush’s attention, contact, or reassurance.

Independent footing

Emotionally invested

Emotionally anchored

0 – NaN: Independent footing | 6 – NaN: Emotionally invested | 11 – NaN: Emotionally anchored

A score of 3 suggests your emotional state is mostly steady and not strongly tied to your crush’s responses.

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Life Balance and Boundaries (LBaB)

Measures how much a crush is affecting your daily routines, priorities, and ability to respect boundaries.

Maintained balance

Some displacement

Significant displacement

0 – NaN: Maintained balance | 6 – NaN: Some displacement | 11 – NaN: Significant displacement

A score of 9 suggests some displacement, meaning the crush sometimes shifts your priorities or checking habits and can make it harder to stick to routines or respond calmly to limits.

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Mental Preoccupation (MP)

Measures how frequently and intensely thoughts about your crush capture your attention and how easy they are to redirect.

Flexible focus

Recurring focus

Consuming focus

0 – NaN: Flexible focus | 6 – NaN: Recurring focus | 11 – NaN: Consuming focus

A score of 11 suggests a consuming focus, where thoughts or imagined interactions with your crush frequently take over attention and can be hard to shift.

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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

Constant Thinkers

41%OF USERS

People who can’t stop replaying interactions, checking for signs, or daydreaming to the point it hijacks focus and sleep.

Reassurance Seekers

34%OF USERS

People who feel unusually anxious without contact or clarity and look for a reality check on whether their feelings have become emotionally dependent.

Boundary Worriers

25%OF USERS

People who notice their crush is starting to disrupt routines or tempt them to overreach and want to gauge if they need to pause and reset.

BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.

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Emotional Dependence (ED)

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5.5

Normal range

3.2 — 7.9

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Life Balance and Boundaries (LBaB)

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4.1

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1.5 — 6.8

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Mental Preoccupation (MP)

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8.4

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6.1 — 10.6

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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?

It screens for three patterns: mental preoccupation, emotional dependence, and disruption to daily balance or boundaries. Results are descriptive and meant to support reflection.

Is this a diagnosis of obsession or a mental health condition?

No. It does not diagnose obsession or any mental health condition, and it does not use clinical or legal cutoffs.

How should responses be answered?

Answer based on recent, typical experience rather than one unusual day. Use the first response that best fits without overthinking.

How long does it take and how many questions are included?

Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 15 questions.

What should be done if the results indicate significant distress or boundary problems?

Pause contact and seek support from a trusted person or a qualified professional if feelings are distressing, disrupt daily life, or make it hard to respect boundaries. Seek urgent local help if anyone may be in immediate danger.

WHAT THE TEST MEASURES

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Am I Obsessed with My Crush Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Wondering whether a crush has shifted from exciting to consuming? This free, no-sign-up quiz explores three distinct patterns: mental preoccupation, emotional dependence, and disruption to everyday balance or boundaries. It uses reflective score bands, not clinical or legal cutoffs, and cannot diagnose obsession or any mental health condition. Answer based on your recent, typical experience. If these feelings are causing significant distress, disrupting daily life, or making it hard to respect someone’s boundaries, pause contact and seek support from a trusted person or qualified professional. Seek urgent local help if anyone may be in immediate danger.

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