Have You Ever Sex Quiz

Example Questions From the Test

• 1When a new kind of romantic or sexual interaction with someone else became possible, what happened?
  • It happened first, and only afterward did we debate whether it was permitted.
  • We discussed it beforehand and reached a shared decision.
  • The possibility was avoided or postponed because we could not agree.
  • A clearly stated boundary was knowingly crossed.
• 2If outside sexual contact may have occurred, which response best matches your situation?
  • We can discuss sexual-health implications and arrange appropriate testing or protection.
  • We have acknowledged the issue and intend to address testing or protection soon.
  • I am handling testing or protection largely alone because communication remains unclear.
  • A serious sexual-health concern remains unaddressed because discussion or cooperation repeatedly breaks down.
• 3When the terms of your current or most recent relationship were established, how clearly was exclusivity—or consensual non-exclusivity—discussed?
  • We explicitly agreed on the relationship structure and what it allowed.
  • We discussed the general structure but left some situations undefined.
  • One of us expressed expectations, but we never reached a clear mutual agreement.
  • We relied on conflicting assumptions and still have not resolved them.