Is He Using Me Quiz
In 10 minutes, clarify whether a current or recent relationship shows one-sided use, control, sexual pressure, or safety concerns. No sign-up, 15 questions, and clear score bands help you decide what to do next.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS
Who Usually Takes This Test?
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Once you complete the test, your results are compared with real-world data from people in your country.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Emotional Control and One-Sided Use (ECaOU)
Average
9
Normal range
6.5 — 11.5
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15
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Physical Safety and Threats (PSaT)
Average
4.8
Normal range
2.1 — 7.5
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15
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Sexual Boundaries and Pressure (SBaP)
Average
8.7
Normal range
6.5 — 10.8
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15
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CLEAR ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this quiz measure?
It screens for patterns linked to one-sided use, emotional control, sexual pressure, and physical safety in a current or recent connection. It summarizes responses into unvalidated score bands for reflection.
How long does it take and how many items are included?
Completion typically takes about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 15 questions.
Can the results confirm his motives or diagnose abuse?
No; it cannot determine motives, confirm intent, or diagnose abuse. It does not replace clinical, legal, or crisis support.
Who is this quiz for?
It applies to experiences involving an adult or a peer in a dating or relationship context. Any concerning experience may be relevant, including nonphysical pressure or control.
What should be done if safety is a concern?
If there are threats, force, coercion, injury, or fear, contact a trusted person or a local relationship-abuse service. Use emergency services when there is immediate danger.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment
Is He Using Me Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
This quick, no-sign-up relationship check helps you examine one-sided use, emotional control, sexual pressure, and physical safety in a current or recent connection. It cannot determine his motives, diagnose abuse, or replace professional advice; its score bands are unvalidated reflective summaries. Harm can involve an adult or a peer. Any concerning experience matters, especially threats, force, coercion, or injury. If you feel unsafe, contact a trusted person or a local relationship-abuse service; use emergency services for immediate danger.
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